Just wanted to give a heads up to anyone still reading. I did in fact find someone willing from my previous two posts, and it worked out pretty well, which is why I'm no longer looking.

After posting in r/dirtyr4r my inbox got absolutely destroyed so I turned off notification and ignored it completely, sorrynotsorry.

I ended up just scrolling through my local subs and found a guy who wanted to give head without reciprocation. He had a good body and seemed to actually want to make it about me so I messaged him. We talked for a few days about what we wanted and agreed to meet Saturday night for an early dinner to see if it would go further.

We met close to DC at a nice little European Cafe thing and he came basically as advertised, pretty normal dude, kinda quiet but I could tell he was excited and that was cute. We chatted for an hour or so before we decided things were going well, so we walked to his car. He put his hand on my hip and asked if he could get us a hotel for the night. I told him I wasn't planning on staying the night but would definitely spend a few hours with him, and he agreed.

We made out at his car for a bit before choosing a nearby hotel and headed there. It had a fancy walk in shower, which I used as an excuse to get naked, and when I came out his jaw dropped with excitement! He said "I'm ready if you are" and I'll spare the details from there but he definitely filled his end of the bargain. His clothes never actually came off, it was just his fingers and tongue, and I oddly enjoyed knowing that.

All told we were there for about three hours just making out, cuddling, and letting him play with me. A pretty positive experience considering my low expectations from reddit.

So, thank you u/RoadStripping for the good experience and next time I'm feeling something like this you're my first call.