Hi ad visitor! I hope you enjoy reading my ad! (Estimated reading time: ~ 5-10 minutes 🤣)

I've been in the kink/BSDM space for several years, and am an experienced Dom Daddy/Caregiver. You can find a bit more about me and my vanilla side below.

Dom/Daddy/Caregiver/Mentor Me

I had a mentor once that would often say a paper (or web page in this case) will take any ink (text) applied to it LOL. That being said, I feel I bring the following qualities to the table as a DD/CG: - Articulate communicator with extreme positive vibes and other-worldly praise capabilities - Expert cuddle master with hedonistic physical touch capabilities - Fabricator of time for your very important attention needs, story time, voice/video calls, support, and comfort - Artisan of hand crafted disciplinary actions, rules, tasks, and structure tailored specifically to your needs, wants, and desires - Tamer of brats using a unique and patent-pending technique ® - Acceptor of clinginess and encourager of brattiness - Institutor of puns and dad jokes, witty and sarcastic humor, and general tickler of funny bones - Provider of a safe yet happy environment for both you and sub/little you to thrive in - Inserter of random words to describe me, such as patient, kind, caring, understanding, open, honest, and uplifting.

(I do solemnly swear no AI was involved in the writing of this "resume" 🤓)

While I make no claims to be a psychologist or psychiatrist, I do play one on TV. Err, what I mean to say is, if you have anything from anxiety to depression, or any type of troubled past/present, I'd love to hear all about it (when you're ready), and just be there to "nudge" you in ways that can possibly help.

(Mostly) Vanilla Me

I’m a professional executive at the company I founded. I'm a dom/daddy with a nerdy twist (in case you didn't notice yet LOL). I'm fit, fun, confident, intelligent, funny, very caring/nurturing, and clearly modest 😜. I very much enjoy role-playing too!

I'm always on a self-improvement journey by way of podcasts, audio books, and reading. It's a far cry from my favorite genre (fantasy), but I really do enjoy it more than I thought possible. These books are helping me become a better person, a better friend, a better business executive, and perhaps most important, a better and more empathetic Daddy Dom.

I have a high-tech background, and speak nerd very well. I used to write for a magazine, and while that was an awesome experience I'll never forget, I really love my business, and can't wait to get to work most days!

I almost always try to be funny, fun, playful, encouraging, just generally in a great mood, and make the most of life in the relatively short time we are on this planet. (If you're reading this from an alternate planet, galaxy, or universe, I'd still love to chat& funny, vibrant, and petite, with an appreciation for life and the people close to you. It would also be great if you are fun, playful, intelligent, and submissive brat that knows how to habitually push people's buttons. Littles, middles, brats, and princesses are all very welcome :)

For long-term relationships, I'd very much like to focus on being friends first, then moving on from there. Please be genuine, passionate, and willing to build a trusted and lasting connection.

I don't really care where in the world you live, but if you're outside the San Francisco Bay area, please be willing to relocate here eventually. There may be some wiggle room, and I want to leave here eventually, but it's extremely ideal if you can move here.

Please don't hesitate to say hello and ask any questions you may have. I prefer to communicate throughout the day when possible.

Note: if you don't have or send a pic, please be willing to do so within a negotiable amount of time. I'm happy to share a partial face pic to start too :)

What you’re Looking for in a Dom/Daddy/Master

Perhaps most of all, you want someone willing to take the time out to really learn your wants, desires, aspirations, etc., even if you’re shy and/or bratty about putting that type of information out there. He will take the time out to understand every one of your kinks, fetishes, and fantasies, including the psychological reasons behind each. He will then use every bit of information learned over time to tailor his domination of you to be "just right", without pre-conceived notions of what's right for you.

You have fantasies you’ve yet to explore, and are looking for someone to learn them, support you, and explore them with you. You do not want to have your ideas shoved aside or ignored even though you’re submissive. (Yes your voice and concerns are very important! He understands this, and is not too prideful to make desired changes.)

You not only like being physically and sexually dominated as "punishment" tailored to your wants and desires, but like your dom to control other aspects of the relationship as well. To you, letting go just feels right once you trust the other person fully. You like that this type of relationship is healthy, and makes you feel more sexy, wanted, needed, and alive. It stimulates your mind in ways you never thought possible, and you need it and crave it.

You want someone that understands that you’re more than just a list of fetishes. Someone that provides a safe and caring space to throw caution to the wind, and be the little or sub you need to be in a safe space tailored just for you. You want to be controlled by someone you trust, and rewarded and cared for after. You crave attention after obedience, and want someone that will learn every inch of your body, your erogenous zones, and everything makes your toes curl with pleasure. You need to have your limits pushed slowly over time.

You want someone that will listen attentively, and carefully pay attention when you’re ready to open up. Someone that’s present in the conversation, and not constantly distracted by their phone or whatnot. Your dom needs to understand your physical and emotional forms of communication and respond accordingly.

You look for guidance from your dom, and not just in the bedroom. Your dom should use what he’s learned about you from conversations and observations to lead you accordingly In that sense, he is also very much a mentor.

With all the above pieces in place, you will submit to your dom fully, and he will take you places you never dreamed possible. In times of sadness or despair, he will be there for you in whatever capacity is necessary.

Even more about my Dom/Daddy Side

The most important thing to understand about me is this: I can provide everything I wrote about above and more. I’m not perfect, but I strive to be the best person I can be every day, but not too arrogant to understand I can always improve and learn from not only my submissive, but other Doms and Daddies.

I always try my best to anticipate your needs and desires, but you should never be afraid to express yourself. You may not always get what you want when you want it, but rest assured that I'm not here to judge you and your fetishes. I am however here to nudge you be the best version of you possible.

The daddy in me loves to cook, read, sing off tune, cuddle, outdoor activities of almost any kind, watch your favorite movies with you, and play with you or just smile and observe as you enjoy your play time. I strive to know exactly what to say and when to say it, and learn when I can do better.

When you're naughty, I'm firm but fair, and you will get both the rewards and punishments you desire. I suppose I'm a mix of soft and hard dom.

Now it is your turn to tell me about you, your little/sub hobbies, and what triggers your sub/little drop!

If you've made it this far, when you message me, tell me your favorite genre of movies (besides Disney 🤣) or your favorite vanilla activities.