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We are a mid 30โs couple that has been married for 5 years. Both of us were in relationships before we first met. This actually forced us to understand we would be sexual with other people, other than ourselves. In return, it made us realize that we needed to control our jealousy if we wanted a future together. A few months later, we broke up with our significant others and have been together ever since. We were given an opportunity to learn how to control our emotions which allowed us to segregate sex and love within our relationship. What developed was an open line of communication regarding everything in life and sex. Before getting hitched, we experimented with different genres of the lifestyle and ultimately the Hotwife/Cuckold realm was our happy place.
It has been a huge benefit to our relationship and it's something we really enjoy doing together. Our communication is enhanced as well as being able to be genuine with one another about our wants or desires.
We are normal people with kids. Planning is a must for us and our schedule is always busy. We are looking for men we can play more than once with, but hot one night deals are okay too. Just understand we may not be able to respond right away and have to plan in advance.
Collectively we maintain postings and comments. Hubby handles initial communication and meet up. We know a lot of swingers do 3 or 4 way group chats. That's just not our deal. Wifey is busy with life and would rather just show up and meet you. Once we are friends, she is much more open to group chats. Hubby handles all of that and is fine to be in group chats with whoever.
What we seek: We enjoy being friends with singles, couples, and parents. If something happens, great! Our primary focus is seeking men who are relaxed to be around and reasonably attractive. Personality makes up for a lot and good pictures help even more. We won't be answering anyone that doesnโt have picture in their profile or a picture in the message. One liners or dick pics will get you blocked.
We are open to being watched, group sex, and more. Hubby enjoys aspects of Cuckold play but the primary focus will be on the wife. We enjoy going at the pace of others and trying to make fantasies come true. Filming is something we very much like to do and it's not a 100% deal breaker, but it is something we will ask to do.
Men: We play as a threesome and this is not a scenario where it's just you and wifey. Height/ weight proportional is our preference. Cock size isn't a huge deal but we do prefer something bigger than husbands 7in cock. Thickness is always appreciated. Dick pics are also cool if the rest of you is in the photo. Please no close up dick shots.
Communication: We mainly just chat here. If you verify, we will move to regular text message to chat from there. Again, please have a photo or we won't answer. We will ask to verify pretty much immediately. If that's not your thing, totally fine. Please don't reach out. We have seen too many fake profiles to waste our time.
Verification method: When we ask, you will send us a photo of the number of fingers we ask you to hold up along with your whole body.
If you have questions for us, just ask. If you have a request, throw it out there. Thanks for reading our bio and keep stayin freaky โ๏ธ.
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