As noted in the body of my ad, leading with discussion of kinks gives me the “icks” because I’m looking for a real, full relationship and interpersonal compatibility is key.

That said, we all do have certain preferences that may be dealbreakers, and that can include aspects of D/s dynamics. To this end, in case my limits are deal breakers, I will share my list of hard limits.

• The “usual suspects”: Scat, kids, animals.
• Diapers, bathroom control or restrictions, wetting
• Age regression
• Race play
• Pet play
• Medical play
• Anal to vaginal
• Adult nursing or lactation
• Bimbofication or dollification
• Enemas, catheters, sounding
• Goup sex, gang bangs, glory holes, being shared or loaned
• Blood
• Needles
• Public scening
• Restrictions for eye contact or speech
• Anal dilation, fisting, or extreme stretching
• Water torture or water bondage
• Sleeping on the floor, in a cage, etc.
• Extreme degradation or extreme verbal humiliation
• Gor
• The “silent treatment” or withholding attention or affection as a consequence/having to “earn” attention or affection