Something that has happened in the past, which I find curious, is when someone takes the time to message simply for the purpose of chastising me or complaining about my ad.

Think about this a moment. Someone reads my ad and I’m clearly not for them and/or they are not what I am seeking, so instead of doing what most people, including me, would do and simply move along, they have to type out a little rant or sarcastic note.

I’m not sure what the point of these messages is, but they do not upset me nor do they deter me. If anything, they tell me everything I need to know about the sender, which is that they are not dominant in the way I am seeking. Someone who is truly dominant as a core of his character, confident in himself, and who knows what he wants will not bother to wine to a woman about her personal ad.

Does the assertive professional man seeking employment reach out to a company to lament that the company standards are too high, or that the firm is missing out by not giving him a shot? Not one with any self-respect. They move on to another opportunity.

But by all means, send a message if it makes you feel better.