About me - what I am seeking and offering in FWBs

I am seeking new FWBs – single and married women and couples.

I am 5’11, 180lb, fit, with a great deal of stamina from dancing for fitness multiple days/nights a week. College-educated and master’s degree holder, with years of corporate experience, while also growing up in farm country and spent time as a kid in a commune. I have a wide range of friend groups that I am comfortable with. My journey to become who I am has been curvy and adventurous – like some of my favorite friends.

I believe that sex is a delicious alchemy of both a physical and mental connection and is so much more interesting when everyone is on the same page intellectually…in and out of the bedroom.

I am experienced in LS, two/three/moresomes (MFM, MFMF, MFMFF), was very happily married for >25 years.

I am a straight male who is very comfortable playing naked with other husbands/boyfriends in the same area.

In the past, I have always found FWB organically and am now looking for new energy and sexy playmates outside of my current community.

I believe that sharing sexual energy with another woman or couple is a privilege and honor to be invited into this intimate experience; just the icing on an already delicious life.

Life has too many shoulds, have tos and don’t want tos that we all manage day in and out and I am not interested in adding to or being part of this drama in any way. No pressure. No drama. No fun. No thank you.

This is not a complete list nor the be-all-end-all about me, but just some musings and conversation starters for others that may think and feel and have similar interests to me.

Like kissing, communication before, during, and aftercare, is essential to all parties feeling safe, secure, and understood; and increases the possibility of further play.

I am open to different levels of play from first & second bases to full home runs to use some silly non-defining analogy. Orgasm is not something to exclusively chase.

Physical pleasure with another is one of the most delicious parts of life. The best of times are when you clearly know each other’s desires, experiences, and boundaries so all parties can drop the outside world at the door and freely and 100% consensual co-create ecstasy together. The world disappears and begins in that moment at each other’s lips and fingertips.

Each other person’s boundaries are the grounds we play within while exploring our edges with no pressure or expectations without explicit consent to explore anything new.

When playing with others, I have always loved compersion and appreciate others who do as well.

Each interaction is an opportunity for everyone to reconfirm desires and boundaries. What was done once is not explicitly expected in the future. Exploring is fun and how we know what we like and don’t.

Everyone’s health and safety are paramount – physical, emotional, sexual, and relational. Open and confidential discussions throughout about the statuses of Vax, STIs testing, including open discussions of current other relationships and interactions ensure no unfortunate surprises. I am disease-free, a non-cigarette smoker and request my partners to be as well. Mystery adds spiciness in many parts of sexy exploration except in these boundary areas.

Domination and humiliation are not interesting to me. I enjoy confidently taking control at times though prefer mutual energy exchanges. I have zero judgment of others who play in these arenas. I am inspired by kindness, candles, intellect, music, laughter, loving touch, and happy endings for all and always deliver equally.

I am a much more of a long slow kisses and exploration of lips and fingertips kind of guy than just DTF for mechanics dude only.

Fantasies are fun and starting slow and exploring creates mmmmmm anticipation and pleasure versus jumping right into it and potentially unintentionally bumping into an unknown or uncommunicated realities. We don’t know until we know each other.

Couples’ relationships are number one. All interactions are intended to be mutual to all. Hotwives, Stag/Vixen, 3somes, 4somes, and fun women who are looking for an occasional playmate are where I like to dance.

Labels are open to interpretation. Curiosity is more interesting than judgments and closed-mindedness.

Being well-presented, gentlemanly, and respectful is always my intention and desire. I dance several hours a week for fitness and this facilitates enjoying hours of fun times with FWBs. I also am looking for playmates who love to see live music and dance both on and off the dance floor.

I am here to play with other players of life. I also like to be silly and gregarious while having lots of salty, sweet fun. Some say that I bring sparkling aliveness into the room. I don’t act my age…in all of the best ways. Born in the 60s and everyone guesses I am 10-15 years younger based on my energy and outlook on life.

Some of my most fulfilling sexual adventures happily finished, and began again, seeing the sunrise and firelight dancing across the skin of others after a night of magic.

Each interaction leads to another while guidelines evolve with trust and respect for each other along the way.

The energy of these most intimate experiences can create fantastic (and undesired by some parties) feelings. Boundaries will be sensitively discussed with all parties before and after play times with each party having the power to discontinue anything at any time without prejudice. Playtime needs to just be icing on a tasty cake of life.

Mutual attraction and vibes are paramount. I like to play with people whom I would be friends with before and desire to exit any sexual relationship on similar friendly terms. Everyone enjoys happy endings and happy memories.

A few things I appreciate in life - cocktails & wine, from fine dining to food cart as well as salty, crunchy, spicy comfort foods enjoyed, shared, cooked, and appreciated. 420-occasionally. Others would say that I am a foodie and a great cook.

Meet-ups for drinks and hikes are a great way to explore each other’s compatibility. Fun in the wild 🔥

I appreciate delicious curves, as well as long lines and multiples of Os for all parties.

If this touches and aligns with who and how you like to play too…reach out and let’s explore what might be.