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Here's how an attempt to find people to play with on Reddit goes.
Find groups that don't immediately ban/silence anyone that has an OF. But they still allow prostitutes, Snapchat spammers, drug dealers.
Post exact details, about what we want, when we want it. Post a pic or 2 with clear face and body to show what to expect.
Get bombarded by 0 karma throw away accounts that are not what we asked for, not available when we asked, don't want to be videoed, but are special and we should choose them anyway because their dick is huge/hotter than anyone on Reddit/can fuck me better than my husband (lol)/like to eat pussy/because they want it.
Wade through "Hey", "interested", "still looking?", "do you like blah, blah, blah?". No pics, no posting history, think that Reddit is just a shopping aisle they walk through picking who they want.
Talk to 40 guys that can communicate beyond 4th grade level, exclude the 20 married guys looking for "discretion" (why the hell are you asking an OF slut for sneaky hookups?
Make plans with 4 or 5 good candidates. 1 shows up, the others have to do their laundry/emergency lawn care/parents died/forgot/deleted their account.
We understand that. We are long time swingers, and have explored A LOT of kinks. We would never judge anyone for their interests (other than the illegal shit). Believe me, we have plenty that we keep to ourselves lol. Act as filthy as you want.
We don't pay much attention to the account content itself, just that it exists for more than trolling and fucking around with other people. As OF creators we catch a lot of hate, trolls, and ghosts. We take steps to avoid them, and the first step is avoiding throw aways.
It is useful when people have their pics and info in their profiles, but we aren't idiots, we recognize most people aren't as comfortable putting out personal info for others to see.
My suggestion for anyone replying to hook up posts is to read the post, reply with an intelligent, and focused reply about yourself, and what you offer (in relation to the post). And clear pictures. If you offer anything they don't see 50 times a day even better. Anyone in the lifestyle should get used to rejection (especially single guys unfortunately). We get turned down all the time for whatever reason (everyone has their own preferences, just like us). We don't take it personally.
No it does not look like a throw away account. You have a little karma and posting history.
We constantly get spammed with shitty OF messages and catphishers. They just make things worse for everyone trying to do things legit.
Yep. Just happened 2 times last night lol. Everyone swears they don't flake, then they do.
100% spot on!
This! 👏
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Then you get called a stuck up whore. About the 10th time that happens you learn to just ignore.