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Ignore this if you've already seen it. I just want to make this & pin it to the top for awareness. I see lots of glorification of incest. And while Incest can be absolutely beautiful, people still need to understand the gravity of an incestuous relationship. I'm not trying to turn you away from it. I'm just trying to say that you should think very carefully. Until society stops shaming incest, you'll need to be very careful unfortunately because lives could be ruined.
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I'm 25, he's 19. So I've been on here for only a couple weeks and it sure seems like a lot of these stories are not real. Which doesn't necessarily piss me off. They're still hot. But I just wanted to share my experience.
It ain't always so magical and lustful as everyone thinks. I never talked about this in my previous posts because, why would anyone care? But I kinda regret not talking about it. Our first time was actually quite nice, but still awkward. I specifically choose to remember the beauty & love, but there were plenty of moments where both of us were rethinking life for a moment. "oh God, did I hit rock bottom? Most people think incest is disgusting, am I fucked up in the head for thinking this was right?" Etc.. And yes, were very lovey dovey toward each other now. But at first, it was a lot to take in. In the beginning, we both admitted that we were close to ending our incest activities because of the guilt.
I get tons of people talking to me, saying that I've inspired them and I try to talk them out of it. Not necessarily to stop, but y'all really need to think about it for a LONG time before you try to go through with it. Don't get me wrong, I love my brother TO DEATH. But we got extremely lucky. Thank God this didn't turn out different. But this could have easily destroyed our lives. It's not for everyone. I truly believe that incest can/is a good thing. But due to most of society thinking it's wrong, you could be inadvertently hurting your family members mental health.
Imagine a daughter who's loved and trusted her dad her entire life. And she's always been told that incest is disgusting and awful. Whether you agree or disagree, if you start coming on to your daughter, your actions could possibly mentally destroy her. She would be shocked & her trust in the only person she thought she could trust is broken. That would feel awful. And it's not fair to her. This same situation goes for literally anyone.
All's Im saying is that you really need to think hard about the decision. It could be the best thing in your life, or an absolute nightmare. And PLEASE, if your family member is clearly not taking your advances, stop immediately. Don't push it! It could screw with their head and/or ruin your family relationship with them.
For us, were just kinda living in the moment. Yes were happy now, but we're not going to obligate ourselves to each other forever. Just in case anything happens. Who knows? It could work out to where we spend our lives together. But If something does happen, it'll hopefully soften the blow. Instead of it hurting, we'll spend the rest of our lives looking back on this moment smiling. Remembering the love & closeness. I would feel horrible if, God forbid, something happens that destroys our relationship, not just as lovers, but as siblings.
tldr, Think long and hard about it, don't push something that's possibly not meant to be, expect lots of awkwardness, live in the moment, and do anything you can to be safe. Family comes first ❤️
Incest can be a very beautiful thing but unfortunately, society and plenty of other things beyond your control could potentially destroy that. So please just be careful & think long and hard. It could inadvertently hurt either the person you love, or others.
Thank you. It's good to hear from others in our same position rejecting the fantasy that's peddled to us, and embracing reality. This is an important decision...perhaps the biggest one of the lives of all involved. And that can't be trivialized.
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