Since so many people are asking what I/we are looking for, I wanted to explain everything here, and I/we want to be upfront with all of my/our needs and wants. Please take the time to read through this thoroughly before messaging us. So here it is.. everything:

We are a (both straight) married couple seeking a SINGLE straight male for a long-term/ongoing boyfriend for her/fwb MFM threesome type situation. When messaging us, please keep in mind that I really DO NOT CARE about how "great looking" you are, how "built" you are, or that you have a "huge cock". The guys that I am attracted to & want to join us are not the cocky ones and the ones that think they are God's gift to women. 2 out of the 4 guys that we met and I fucked could of been fitness models and had a dick to die for... BUT they weren't cocky assholes that bragged about it. They were normal. The guys that I am attracted to are normal. The other 2 guys I fucked were normal. Not fitness gurus, not huge dicks, etc. They respected me and my husband. My 1 boyfriend was always shy and I could tell he was nervous everytime I touched him. That made me very WET... Instantly! If you message talking about how you wanna fuck me and cum all over me, you're getting blocked. Grow up. There is no woman that I know of that has a positive response to something like that unless they are getting paid. Ok.. next subject. I/we only see 1 person at a time. I ask that whoever I am seeing/having sex with/fucking/having threesomes with to NOT be having sex with anyone else when having sex with me. YES, you will have to make a commitment to me/us if you want to be with me/us. That means not having sexual relations of any sort with anyone else.. at all. I/we are and always have been 100% clean and plan on staying that way! I am not able to have children anymore, so I prefer "bare" or "raw". There's nothing like the feeling of having another man slide into me and feeling everything. I have had very few partners in my life. I am married to my high school sweetheart, and I have only had sex with 4 different guys since we have been together. The 4 guys I did have sex with, I/we seen them long term (years). My body count may be low, but I know what I'm doing. <evil laugh> 😈 . Haha

Here is an example scenario of a meeting with whoever I/we are seeing. It would be something like this:

My boyfriend would come over to our place for the day and the 3 of us would take the boat to the lake. I would wear my bikini, and tease the living hell out of both my husband & my boyfriend throughout the entire day. Lol. Flirting, talking, touching, rubbing, kissing, etc. I really love to make guys squirm with anticipation and tease. I also get extremely turned on/wet seeing THEM turned on and rock hard. The bulge. Omg... lol. Sidetracked...lol. Anyway, then we would head back to our place where the 3 of us take a shower (together of course), have a nice dinner, and finish the evening/rest of the night off in the bedroom. 😈

We have had my boyfriend(s) stay overnight with us in our bed (me in the middle). This usually tends to lead to numerous sessions throughout the night. 😉

I DO and HAVE played alone, but I ONLY play alone with my boyfriend after we have been meeting with him regularly (a couple to a few times a month) having regular straight threesomes for like 6 months. After both my husband and I are comfortable, then I will start meeting him alone. My husband and I both must be comfortable and know he can be trusted and that I will be safe before I fuck him without my husband there with me.

I often refer to my regular as my "boyfriend". I hate the term "bull". The term is degrading to not only me/us, but it's degrading to the guy being called it too. I look at this as more of something like a fun triad living life to the fullest.

We are not into any type of humiliation/cuck / cuckold-type scenarios.

Here is what we are NOT looking for: 1. Couples. 2. Married men. 3. Men in relationships. 4. Bi or gay men. 5. "Bulls". (See above)

As far as the beginning stages of chatting, you will be talking to my husband first. You also should know I tend to be VERY shy (like seriously shy), and I remain that way until I get comfortable with you. What happens after I am comfortable with you..? Well... Watch out. 😉 Lol. We go through all of the messages sent to us together, and then we decide on who interests us, and who we want to reply to. My husband usually picks way more people to reply to than me, so thank him if we reply to you. Lol. Jk. You can thank me with your tongue. Lmao! Jk! (Maybe). So.. my husband is also the one that you will be talking to in the beginning.. not me. Here are a couple of hints to remember. The way to a married woman's pussy (well mine anyway), is by impressing the HUSBAND, not the wife. If you don't want to talk to my husband and ignore him, it's an instant turn-off. It disgusts me, and I will block you. I will talk to you after I feel he is comfortable with you. Please don't ask him to talk to me. I am not a single female. This is 100% my choice and what I want. I will talk to you in due time.. but again, we are a married couple and not a single female.

When I start talking to someone... we start off in a group text. The 3 people in the group text will be you, my husband, and me. If you try to hide something from my husband, I will block you. If you text me outside of the group text, I will block you. If you have anything you want to say to me, you should be comfortable saying it in front of my husband too. If/when things progress to meeting (irl), then we can start talking/texting without my husband if I am comfortable. I realize to some, this may seem extreme. To me, it is not. It's a new person and I need to be 100% positive that I will be safe if/when I am alone with him. Once the comfort is there, I start to open up, and I can tend to get kinky (if you want) 😉 lol

The other hint I have is this... If you are going to chat with us and are truly interested in meeting us, then please show it. By this, I mean showing a true interest in me/us by reaching out at least semi-regularly. If you only have time to message once or twice a week, then please don't bother reaching out at all. I realize life gets busy, and I/we totally understand that. At the same time, I'm not a piece of meat and here for your "booty call" & convenience when you're horny. I'm not asking you to reach out every single day, but reaching out a few times a week to chat/talk shows (to me at least) that you are 100% serious and genuinely want things to proceed.

That's about all I can think of.

Idk.. This may fall closer in line with being polyamorous, poly, non-monogomy, ENM, or non-monogamous. We always thought it was a Hotwife thing, but maybe we are in a vixen/stag thing. I don't fall in love with other guys. I can easily separate emotions/feelings (some women can't) from sex. My husband is the only guy I ever have or ever will love. ❤️

So I'm going to be blunt!! (So very unlike me). I ❤️ LOVE, LOVE, LOVE having 2 cocks at once, and it is my husband's BIGGEST turn-on. I ❤️ LOVE having a threesome (MFM)! I ❤️ LOVE 4 hands running all over my body at the same time! I ❤️ LOVE sucking my boyfriend's dick while my husband has me bent over fucking me doggy-style (or vice versa)! I ❤️ climbing on top and riding my boyfriend until he can't take it anymore! I ❤️ sucking my boyfriend's cock! I ❤️ teasing the FUCK out of my boyfriend! I ❤️ LOVE my boyfriend eating my pussy! I ❤️ LOVE my boyfriend cumming in/on me! It fulfills me/us... and as a bonus, It spices up all of our sex lives in so many different ways! Toys, role-playing, light bdsm, etc.

Feel free to reach out if you think you may be a good fit and interested! 😃

Thank you in advance!