About me: I live in Southern California (SoCal) and I'm a non-denominational christian who does not seek validation from others nor is here to validate or invalidate others. I’m 5’7, single, never walked down the aisle and I don’t have any kids. I love viewing art, listening to music and visiting botanical gardens. I love fantasy fiction novels, movies, games etc... I'm a big Winnie the Pooh and Kuromi fan. I'm a confident Black BBW and I’ve been actively working on my health and wellness for the past 6 months. Every day I strive to be and do a little bit better than yesterday. I’m also a hopeless romantic who has their head in the clouds who still believes I can find a fairytale romance with plenty of cringe worthy moments lol (a girl can dream right). I love playing games and watching anime. I’m introverted but I love learning new things and traveling to new places. I can appear serious at first but most of the time I'm just shy or nervous. I value individuality and embrace individual differences. We were all created with different gifts, talents and personalities. Our backgrounds and experiences allow us to encourage inspire and motivate those we encounter. I believe in being humble, honest and transparent. I’m also a woman who believes that chivalry is not dead and hoping to find a gentleman.

What I'm looking for: I’m looking for someone who’s more concerned with compatibility and building trust, who’s mutually respectful and understanding. I’m looking for a man who’s secure enough in their masculinity to appreciate a strong woman and willing to explore non sexual forms of intimacy(currently practicing abstinence). The goal is to create a bond through friendship that will act as a strong foundation for a long term relationship. Lastly I'm looking for someone who is supportive, open minded and flexible. Being patient, gentle and kind is also important. Of course anything I ask for I’m able and willing to reciprocate. I don’t have a preference on race or size so if you message me I hope you don’t either. Age range of 30-45 would be preferred(open to slightly younger or older if you think we’d be a good match). Also open to long distance within the U.S. if there's intent to relocate. Ultimately compatibility means more to me than location so if you think we'd be a good match send me a message. If there's enough trust built overtime, we can find a fair and healthy way to close the gap. If you’ve read this far and you’re sincere about getting to know each other, send me a message with your favorite game or anime series.