DEAR SUB IN MY INBOX:

I'm writing this post because I receive countless messages and chat requests from strangers who wish to tell me that they would love to be my sub. Please know that I am not sharing the link to this post out of anger or resentment, I'm merely saving the both of us some time and energy. You are welcome to read through everything and make a second attempt at introducing yourself to me, but it's understandable if this message scares you off because you feel anxious.

That being said... I will present my most important posts to you so that it's easy for you to figure out if you are TRULY interested in offering your devotion to me. There is a sub application form in the PERSONAL AD for you to fill out and deliver to me, which is the first clear sign that someone has read my information.

• 👑 【 Personal Ad 】
  • Voice Verification
  • Age Verification
• 👑 【 Her Majesty 】
  • 🌟 SUBS: AGE VERIFICATION IS A MUST! 🌟
  • Potential Subs: Please Read!
• SFW Task Examples can also be found on my page.

READ & UNDERSTAND:

• It is NOT easy to be chosen as my sub. I will take someone under consideration and it may take a week or month to figure out if we vibe well together, but that doesn't mean I am your Domme unless we've established our dynamic.
• I will not accept just anyone especially if you haven't done your homework on Femdom, submission, and learning about me as a person. Please know WHY you want to be my submissive and WHAT you have to offer as my submissive before approaching me. Tell me what you like about me and why you think we would be compatible without sending me any kind of horny nonsense without my consent.
• If you are specifically looking for someone to give you free sexual favors or paid services, then I am not the Domme for you. I do what I want, how and when I want to. I'm not an object or a prize to be won.
• I am not a kink dispenser, I am Demisexual and I require a strong emotional connection to form a bond, and I genuinely do not care to have sexually-charged messages with strange men. In fact, that is something to be earned and I will not even discuss basic D/s things if you haven't provided Age Verification, Photo Verification, and Voice Verification.
• When first connecting, I tend to be slow because I have a low social battery and I don't know you well enough to freely be my chatty self. Sometimes I feel burn out from IRL stress, family issues, or the way men come at me on here and I'll end up taking a few days off. If you are in need of someone who's quick to respond, able to give you hours of texting from the get go, or you like to jump into D/s right away... then we're probably not going to work out. We both have to be patient with each other and allow ourselves the time to nurture a more natural connection. The more it seems like you care about me as a person, the easier it is for me to open up and find a dynamic that suits us.
  • On this note: I like to ask what you're into, what makes you tick, how you would like to spend time together, and things that you need from me before I go anywhere near the Domme leash. I want to be respectful of you and get to know you as a person before thinking of you as a sub.
  • There are a handful of subs who are working with me right now, which means I have to choose how to spend my time wisely. I'm obviously going to prefer those who seem to care about me instead of the strangers who are thirsting for domination alone.
• You are more likely to enter my circle by being supportive of my creative endeavors (skills related to art, gaming, ASMR, music or anything that I'm interested in). As I've mentioned in my other posts, I want subs who could help me with youtube/ASMR and I'm also the type of person who enjoys being pampered too (you would take your girlfriend on dates or give her presents, so that's what I like to see from subs). If you aren't great at socializing/gaming or you aren't able to do things that would make me life easier in some way, then I will not be interested in you. That is as blunt as I can get so I can save you from wasting your time here.
  • At the end of the day, I want to see devotion and meaningful investment. Whether you're worshipping me from afar or working with me on any of my projects, I'll be happy to be Your Empress if you're putting in the work and effort. :)

I might post my personal ad one more time to see if anyone interesting will pop up, but I'm pretty certain that I'm going to stick to the subs who have been consistent with me.