Guys ask me this a lot and I never really know what to say so I wrote this and decided to post it here:

I want a man I can be addicted to. A man who I respect and trust completely. A man who is confident, who knows what he wants in life and craves to show me how I can fit into his plan. A man who loves to tease and push my buttons, but can also make my knees weak with a stern voice. I want to be excited to talk to him every day and think about when I will see him next when he's away. I want to accept this man's guidance, whether hard or soft. I want to give this man all of me. I want to spend all day thinking about how to please him, both sexually and otherwise. I want to go to sleep every night knowing he's the happiest man in the world because he has me and enjoy the validation that gives me. I want to give him my everything.