I love giving massages like most guys like getting blowjobs. I don't get any sexual release from it, even if it's a sexual massage, but I DO get a tremendous amount of satisfaction from bringing relaxation and pleasure to the person under my hands.

Having said that, if you're a woman or a couple within driving distance to the South Metro and would like a massage (relaxing, sensual, erotic, or otherwise), please don't hesitate to reach out. I am well-groomed, respectful, open, giving, and as discrete as you need me to be. I have a massage table in the play room of my home in South Bloomington and am always happy to host. I am occasionally willing to travel to you, but I prefer to host as the massage table is only part of what I love about my space. I most likely will not travel >20mi from South Bloomington.

Massage Negotiation Whenever I massage someone, whether they're someone new or someone I've massaged previously, the first thing we'll do is have a conversation about objectives and boundaries. This is your opportunity to tell me what kind of massage you're looking for. You'll tell me what level of covering you want and what you want me to touch (and what NOT to touch).

Be sure to inform me if there are any parts of your body that are particularly sensitive or that I need to avoid beyond those covered through the standard negotiation items, below. Examples might include injuries, recent/healing piercings, parts of your body or kinds of touch that are triggering (aversion to tickling, having feet, ears, head, or face touched, etc).

Any of the types of massage below can be modified at your request to include or exclude specific elements. Be assured that whatever boundaries you set, I will follow!

This negotiation script does not guarantee that I will be comfortable massaging anyone and everyone. It does not guarantee that If I agree to massage a given person that that person is entitled to receive anything listed this script. My own comfort level and consent are just as important as the person I am massaging and are not to be taken for granted.

Mid-Massage Renegotiation Some people who have just met me aren’t comfortable agreeing to a “spicy massage” right off the get-go. That’s totally OK! If you want to start out at PG or PG-13 and get more comfortable as the massage progresses, I’m absolutely fine with you asking to increase (or decrease) the rating in the middle of the massage. Consent can be granted (or withdrawn) at any time (although NOT retroactively).

Having said that, if you aren’t comfortable with the idea of granting consent “in the moment” (worried your libido will overwhelm your rational decision-making) and you want me to stick to the limits you’ve defined before the massage has commenced, regardless of what you tell me during the massage, you need to explicitly tell me that during our negotiation.

Covering You can be clothed, fully nude, or anything in between. I can also drape you so that portions of your body are covered while I'm not actually working on them. (I’m not trained for this, but I do my best!)

Rated PG This is a typical relaxing full body massage. I won't make contact with any parts of your body that would be covered by a bikini.

Rated PG-13 Adds breast massage, but no genital contact. Massaging of the inner thighs will leave enough margin that I will not touch/graze your labia.

Rated R Adds massaging of the full inner thigh and light grazing of the labia, but no prolonged contact. Kind of teasing.

Rated X Adds genital massage (sometimes referred to as Yoni or pussy massage). This can still vary significantly depending on whether you want me to try to get you off, or if I'm just massaging it in a relaxing manner like any other part of your body (based on your preference).

Rated XXX Adds penetration of the vagina with fingers and/or toys.

Couples I've had tandem massages with more than 1 set of hands on me and I highly recommend it! I've performed tandem massages with a couple before and it was a lot of fun. I absolutely LOOOOOVE working with a partner of any gender or presentation in massaging a woman. While I'm straight enough that particularly masculine men (lots of body hair, specifically) tend to squick me a bit, I am still happy to join a woman in massaging her masculine partner (although I'll leave the sensual/sexual elements to her).

One-Way or Two-Way Touch We will negotiate whether the massage will be

One-Way Touch - i.e., the person on the table will remain passive and not actively seek to touch the person giving the massage with their hands, feet, mouth, or other parts of their body, or Two-Way Touch - i.e., the person on the table is permitted to freely touch the person giving the massage within negotiated limits STI Risk Assessment Before any form of sexual contact, we should have a discussion of our STI Risk Profile. I have HSV-1. I will not kiss or go down on anyone if I have any cold sores (never had one), or mouth sores (canker sores). Do you have any known infections? How long has it been since we’ve each been tested? What were you tested for? How many partners have you been with since you were last tested? What are their basic risk profiles? I am comfortable with using my hands and mouth on genitalia without the use of a barrier. Is that acceptable to you, assuming we’ve negotiated that kind of contact in the first place?

My Boundaries/Limits I do not offer "Full Service" massage (i.e., penetrative sex) during a first meeting. My underpants will stay on while I massage you, unless we explicitly negotiate otherwise (and usually requested by the person I'm massaging - I generally respond positively to such requests, but will rarely suggest it on my own). Oral sex is something that is POSSIBLE at a first meeting, if the both of us are vibing fairly well, but that's not terribly common. Penetrative sex can potentially be negotiated after a first successful meeting, after an STI risk discussion and vetting/approval by my partner prior. The one potential exception is at parties where that is acceptable.

Aftercare Although not required, I do love exchanging aftercare cuddles to balance out some of the emotional energy I invest in a massage.

Condoms are required and non-negotiable for penetrative sex if that has been negotiated and we are both comfortable for that to occur.

Reviews/Testimonials Also not required, but are very much appreciated, if you care to leave a comment on this post about your experience for others who are considering whether to reach out. 🥰 NOTE: Most of my massages are arranged through FetLife and my reviews/testimonials are all posted there at this time. you can find a link to it on my FetLife profile which is linked on my Reddit profile.