Hi! My name is Andy and I'm a Massage Whore! 😁

I am an ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, swinkster, currently in the process of separating with my partner of 8 years. I currently have one other partner who I see one or more times per week. We mostly play separately, but will play together on occasion with the right vibe.

I run a sex-positive house party group called Sexy_Soirees on FetLife. Sexy Soirees is a relatively small private group that focuses on friendship and community in addition to hedonism and the occasional splash of kink/BDSM. Feel free to look us up and give us a shout on Fet if you’re interested, but we are fiercely protective of our vibe that has absolutely no room for people whose only interest is finding someone to hook up with. Unfortunately, the future of the group is currently uncertain with the breakup until we can figure out what happens with the house.

I am HSV-1 positive. Last tested in October. Negative across the board.

Touch is my love language and massage and cuddling are my biggest kinks. I love love love massage (giving and receiving)! I own a massage table and other massage equipment and would love to trade massages as a way to warm up and get to know one another. Read my standard massage negotiation script, if this interests you.

As for vanilla interests, I'm a computer nerd, gamer, movie buff, aspiring cook, voracious reader, small dog lover, and avid glamper.

Thanks for visiting!