Hi all. I wrote two long posts about my desire for focused breastplay, a desire that may include ANR (though I don’t know if that label fits for me). Long story short, I erased both without realizing it was permanent. 🤦🏻‍♀️ But regardless, sending such personal thoughts into the world has been a bit overwhelming to me (with a response running the spectrum of humanity lol) so perhaps I’ll start here.

I’ll re-write one day but for now: I have extremely sensitive nipples and heavy breasts and I have always wanted long sessions of attention… where the person suckling and playing is getting as much pleasure from it as I am. I’m a giver and it is essential that someone really desires this. I think it is foreplay and a build up to sex but also it’s own form of sensuality, nurturing, connection. One that could just be while watching a movie, after a hard day, Sunday morning, or falling asleep. My exes have been kind but all ass-men (which is great too) but I would so love to experience this so-called “latch” and the overwhelming feeling it can apparently create for both parties with focused attention and pleasure. There’s no ageplay or mommy kink to this for me… it’s two adults participating in what feels like one of the most intimate acts of all.

Interested in exploring or even discussing with those with experience but ultimately, my dream is an ongoing connection where this is a big component of our lives that we both love. Not the sole focus by any stretch but a feature nonetheless. I just had to put these thoughts somewhere as I often feel they swirl in my mind with no where to safely go.

Thanks for reading… hopefully doing so without judgment. Leaving it up for now. 💕