I'm Derek, male, 32 years of age with 10 years of experience in bdsm. Currently residing in Germany I lean towards sadism because i like the pain and the control, the helplessness feeling a sub experience knowing full well that it was their choice.

My Kinks are not exclusive, I have experienced a lot of kinks, liked many and loved a few, following are the ones I loved-

Psychological Domination - I love therapy and making people realise their true talent and purpose, helping them accept their truth

Control - All types of control, eventually leading to TPE, are you sure you are the best person to make important decisions?

Pain - impact play, cbt, nipple torture, bondage etc (Note- i love building up the pain slowly and finding creative ways to inflict it.)

Denial - Desperation keeps a sub obedient.

Limits Gore, blood, permanent damage, and scat Not into exposing or exposure

I'm a straight leaning dom, I am not into boys but I do like enslaving men (know the difference between boys and men) along with women as i love their struggle to accept their inferiority and submission, all the while their "male ego" is being broken slowly and they can feel their patriarchy and manliness leak out of them.

Im not mean, rude or an abuser. Im a sadist not an awful human (know the difference)

I like to converse with my subs and create a safe space for all them. It's not based on just bedroom or sexual stuff, I like to be a part of day to day life. I won't be a friend exactly but would be open to discussions regarding everything. It'll be completely discreet and monogamous from both ends, romantic partners are allowed but just there should be only 1 person controlling your life.

Dynamic -

1. There will be rules that has to be followed at all times
2. Sessions as per availability
3. Time based assignments (homework)
4. Random inspections
5. Daily interactions

Trust, honesty and discretion are the holy trinity.

Enjoy whatever you do😉