Describe your idea of a daddy dom. Because I have an idea in my head but there’s so much nuance in all of kink and everyone has a different version of what they think a dom should be. Mine is so similar to mommy domme. But I’ve been looking and finding that guys have no idea how to be a proper dom let alone a daddy dom. True domming comes from building a strong connection. A base of friendship, layered with intimacy, that’s when you unlock the true power of a dynamic. Submission is a gift. It is given, not expected.

It’s tricky bc as subs men willingly give their submission right up front. And it’s tempting for me to just used them at my leisure. But that’s not true submission. It’s kink. They just get off on being used sexually. And I think that’s how men think on the other side as well. That Dom means telling someone what to do and being in control. When it’s so much more than that.

When I’m cared for and my needs are met and I feel safe and respected, my submission flows so easily. I give so much of myself. If men only knew how submissive I could be…. But they don’t understand the relationship that needs to be cultivated before that can happen.

I’m really hoping to one day find that. Because I’ve been playing in the Domme space for some time now and I’m really craving a daddy dom experience and being soo sooo subby.