I was chatting with a man yesterday who told me that men who are obsessed with anal sex probably are pushing down their desire to be with another man. Interesting take. I guess he means men who strictly sleep with women I guess. Because plenty of men hook up with both men and women and enjoy giving and getting anal sex. But what does it mean if a man who only sleeps with women is mostly interested in anal sex? Does it mean anything at all?

This brought us to the topic of trans women. Men are super fucking turned on by a trans woman and I wondered what the appeal was? He told me it was probably men who are curious to play with a penis and being with a trans woman was a safe acceptable way to do that. I get it. I also think so many men are dick curious, and why shouldn’t they be? They’re fun. I don’t think it should mean anything about your sexuality other than you’re open minded. Some men are a little too hung up on what things mean and are scared to explore natural curiosities.

As far as anal goes, I just assumed it was the taboo nature of it. Everyone finds excitement in the taboo. Maybe it’s the tightness of it. Shit, he told me he knew a guy who was 11 inches and he could only have anal sex bc that cavity could stretch further to accommodate him. Which is wild to me bc I feel like I could handle more in the front than in the back. But the front certainly has its limits. Although, isn’t it wild when you see these tiny little petite spinner types who can take massive dicks in both holes? At the same time? Like where do they put it? Wild.

What are your thoughts on anal? I’m genuinely curious. A guy told me once that the pussy feels better bc it can do things the ass can’t do. Thoughts? I’d love for you guys to weigh in.