My chat request will be turned off once this post has reached the 2 day mark and then my chat request will be off because I'm no longer online, for people that had their chat request missed, I'm sorry I just didn't log in enough to catch all my messages, I'm sorry about that. So, I got a few questions that a few people wanted answers for and I have the answers for that. I don't know why people jump to conclusions about all of this, seems kind of judgmental if you ask me, which is why I don't feel like I belong here, or people will have interest in me and it's why I'm choosing to ghost myself here. I'm not saying my whole experience here for the few days I've been on here was all bad. That's not what I'm implying at all, I did text a few people that were genuinely nice and friendly, but majority of my messages were hi and that's it. I only had a small handful of people send me a very detailed response and some other people messaged me and I checked their profile and why did I see? NWSF subreddits, why would you message me? I'm a morpher, I'm asexual sometimes and sometimes I can be graysexual, so why would you message me if you're subscribed to NSFW subreddits? That's also an important factor as well, while I'm not going to be an avid person here and mainly will be a ghost here, I don't want my partner into NSFW content, I won't be cool with that. It's the same thing as my partner respecting the duality switch of me being asexual and sometimes I can be graysexual. By all means if you're wondering, yes I love flirting, but creative flirting and no NSFW flirting. So, just keep that in mind.

Why do you want multiple boyfriends?

While I'm new to wanting polymerous relationships, but I'm still not really grasping what is the issue people are having with someone choosing the polyamorous path choice over monogamous. I think that's because people are getting the wrong idea about me as a person? I think when people think/see the word polymerous that means you want multiple or many boyfriends. Not entirely no, I don't want 10-15 or 20 boyfriends, no thank you. I prefer only to have a few partners and stick with those partners forever, I'm not interested in group adding either. I'm not that tasteless and I get very emotional and spiritually attached to my partners. Not only am I like that, but all my partners will be treated as equals and I will never have plans to break that rule and as well as me adding partners. You will never see me with 10-15 partners and then adding more, no just try not to be so judgmental about someone being polymerous. You should ask first, before assuming. But many people don't operate like that anyways, so what even am I trying to say? I also, would love to have a partner that will not ask me to change to polymorous to monogamous. Or as if I can be something else besides axesual or graysexual, if this something you're not comfortable with from the start, then I'm sorry but I don't know what to say. I'm however okay with you saying that you are willing to try to date someone that is polymerous, asexual and a graysexual because you never dated someone like that before. I'm comfortable with giving you a chance and that isn't an issue with me at all :) What is the community about? I believe the rules are quite self explanatory and easy to understand what the community is about and what the community stands for, but you need to understand one thing about this community, if you disagree with most of the rules that are presented in the community, then your best bet is not to join. There are only 9 people in the community right now, but this community is recently new anyways and a lot of people don't use Telegram to begin with anyways. But if you want to know what the community name stands for, it's very simple really.

Poly, means polymerous, you don't have to be polymerous to join. But you've to be respectful and friendly if you're not polymerous. The moderators are active on both groups, so if you want to think about trolling the place or start harassing others, you will be banned quickly and that would be literally a waste of time. To be quite honest with people here, I've monogamous friends that accept my lifestyle, because what is there to judge really over this lifestyle? That's really quite dumb to not be friends with someone because of that. I wouldn't see why someone would judge someone so harshly of that and why my friends would question my lifestyle choices. The next word coming up is game, you might ask what on Earth is a PolyGame? Well first and foremost, if it wasn't obvious by the profile picture icon for the subreddit community, game is short for gamer because I couldn't honestly fit the word gamer, I was at the max letter count and I couldn't fit the word gamer, but I guess that wasn't obvious enough for people to grasp that concept. I thought the gamer tag would give that away, but obviously I was wrong and that wasn't helpful to let people know that was a clue. But I understand why people got confused about it, I also don't need to explain the dating part at all.

Because the whole thing translates polymerous gamer dating. Where this subreddit community is for polymerous gamers to find dates and as well as polymerous ace gamers to find dates. Speaking of asexuality, you don't need to be asexual to join the Creative Connections group as long as you're accepting of people being asexual or other graysexual or what have you, then you can stay/join there is no issues once so ever, as long as you can comply with the rules, will read the rules and then you will just be fine to enter the Creative Connections group or the community group, I hope this clarifies everything.

But then you might ask okay what is the creative part about, do I really need to explain about the creative part? I mean by looking at my profile, reading some of my posts and reading some of my comments shouldn't that connection click for you or why I've chosen Creative? If it doesn't, then I don't think we would be good friends or partners to communicate, but it seems you're not good at grasping metaphors/play on words with someone that has a complex mindset and I'm sorry for everyone that got so massively confused of this ideology of everything, I thought everything was easy to understand/explain, but I guess I should've not thought about oh this is easy in my mind, others shouldn't struggle as much, but here we're.

Anyways, thanks for taking your time and energy to read all this. I hope you're left with more clarity than you did beforehand and you're not left with more confusion because that's not what I want at all. More importantly, sorry for most of the recent chat request that I've missed, if you're one of the chat request that have got missed because I've ghosted my profile, then you can just let me know by a private message, because you can tell me in the Telegram Group that you're trying to contact me and you can either find me in the members section of the Telegram group or you can just ask me to message you instead, because that just works out fine just as well :)

r/PolyGamerDating

After you've read the rules, this is where you can message me, you need to click on the image to make the image bigger, I don't know what's up with that to be quite honest with whoever is reading this.