I hope you had fun reading my ad! 😜🙂 If you’re interested in reaching out but need more info on the non-kinky/non-sexual stuff then this is the place to look.

Consent, boundaries, and trust:

For me, safety, comfort, and trust are the foundations of fun, kinky play. Without healthy boundaries and a clear understanding of consent, people can get hurt (and not the fun, ouchie hurts from a good spanking). Which is why I try my best to establish good communication up front with any potential play partners about expectations and limits. Going over all that important stuff before we play together so that when we do finally meet up for a play session, it's fun and sexy. This approach has served me really well in the past and it helps keep me and those I play with safe. Previous and current play partners have expressed gratitude for how comfortable and secure I make them feel - that I earned and validated their trust with my words and actions starting from the very beginning. And they express even more gratitude when I make them feel sexy/excited/used/small/vulnerable/safe/etc in the bedroom.

Are we looking for a similar situation?

If you’re searching for a long-term romantic relationship or a monogamous dynamic I can’t really help you out. The same goes for sugardaddy/baby dynamics, not interested. What I’m looking for is someone fun to meet up with on a regular, ongoing basis for kinky play sessions (probably weekly or monthly depending on our schedules). So basically a dom/sub situation as opposed to bf/gf.

Current relationship status?

I consider myself ethically non-monogamous, solo-poly. I’m not married and I don’t have a romantic partner at the moment. But I do have other play partners that I explore various kinks with, who are aware I play with others. If you have a partner (or multiple) that’s awesome!🙂 (If they don’t know you play with others, that’s not so awesome from my POV😕 Please don’t reach out if you’re going behind a partner's back)

What do I bring to the table?

• Patient, kind, and empathetic. I take things at a pace that’s comfortable for you, building trust along the way while respecting your boundaries.
• A good listener outside of the bedroom or during aftercare. Maybe you had a rough day and you just need someone to vent to. I don’t criticize or offer any unsolicited advice that wasn't asked for. But I can offer a shoulder to lean on and a compassionate ear while listening to what you have to say, offering words of validation for what you’re feeling. Or maybe you had an awesome day and want to share/celebrate with someone who will be your biggest hype man🥳
• Playful and optimistic - My ad should be a good example of my playful creativity. I like to laugh, tease and goof around. I don’t take myself too seriously and generally try to have a glass half-full, hopeful mindset.
• A sensual pleasure Dom with a playful sadistc streak and lots of kink experience who knows how to tease your mind and make pretty little playthings wet😜

What you bring to the table:

• I’m looking for a girl that is kind, patient, and compassionate. A play partner that’s not afraid to express how she’s feeling, not shy about voicing her boundaries, someone who’s willing to communicate her desires and needs. Or maybe you’re still figuring out what some of your desires and boundaries are. Let’s have fun while figuring some of that stuff out!
• Traits like playfulness, optimism, and enthusiasm in a partner makes things 100x better😁 I do my best to surround myself with positive people who look for every opportunity to celebrate the good times 🥳 and look for the silver linings during the shitty times🫂
• You don’t take yourself or kink stuff too seriously. I’m not a 24/7 lifestyle kinster. For me, kink is fun and roleplaying practiced mostly in the bedroom. While I love lots of the more psychologically intense kinks like power imbalance, degradation, pain and all that other fun stuff, I don’t treat partners that way outside of play. I’m not some mean, controlling, domineering person in vanilla life. I’m a laid back goofball. Outside of play sessions, my partners and I are equals.
• A woman who’s eager to please (and be pleased)😉

Some vanilla stuff about me:

I love volunteering at the animal shelter. I don’t have any pets of my own, so I go there to walk the dogs, pet the cats and get in as many furbaby cuddles as I can🥺🐶 I’ve got a bit of a nerdy streak in me and enjoy all sorts of fun, social stuff with friends - things like bar trivia and board game nights. Love to binge watch the latest good streaming series.

Physical stats:

I’m 6’1, slim, athletic body type with a shaved head and usually some facial scruff or a beard. Body pic here😜 Happy to send a face pic if we start to vibe over chat.

Now what are you waiting for!? Hurry up and fill out that Daddy's Academy application if any of this clicked for you and let's start chatting🙂