Thank you for reading. This isn’t your typical post here. Just letting you know up front, if you respond without reading, you’ll be deleted so save us both the trouble, please. If you don’t fit what she/we are looking for, it’s not gonna happen.

TL/DR: after many years in and out of the LS, wife is now only open to a few scenarios. A native Scot/Irish lad, super chill couples around our age, cute girls into pee/squirt, or someone to replace our long lost Steve!

Long version (sorry, there’s a lot to explain):

So, you may have seen our previous posts looking for a SM of the Scottish/Irish variety. This stems back to my wife’s obsession with Outlander and her love of the men and their accents.

Now, previous to all of this, we started out in the LS about 13 years ago. We were pretty heavy in it until we had our daughter. After that (and, after a health scare), her interest has dwindled.

We have a very healthy sex life together but between kids, careers (she’s a realtor, I own a roofing company), hanging out with friends, and just general life stuff, we haven’t had much time for the LS. And, honestly, there is a lot of bullshit to deal with when it comes to finding quality play partners and we just haven’t had the time or energy to try again.

We were spoiled early on with finding great guys, gals, and couples, but the past few years have been a challenge.

A few scenarios keep coming up as possibilities that, if we were to find it, she would be open to the idea of playing again.

First would be the Scottish/Irish guy for MFM (straight not bi and not looking for a bull).

Second would be a cool couple we could hang out with around our age, life close by us, in a similar place in life (good careers, kids are a little older, not into drugs or heavy alcohol), have their shit together, and not a bunch of drama (aka be laid back!). Life is short so why should it be filled with so much BS, right? Just have fun!

Third is kind of a reach and definitely not a must, but our one kink is watersports and we’ve never found a girl who is into it yet (not looking for a guy for this unless there’s another girl involved). Would love to explore this sometime.

Last and maybe the hardest to explain is looking for our new “Steve”. See, Steve was a SM friend we met back in the Craigslist days who was like the ultimate SM. He was attractive, fit, funny, enjoyable to be around, confident but not cocky, and very much understood his role with a couple like us. He never crossed any boundaries. The advantage he had was he was recently divorced and he and his ex were swingers who also played with single men. So, he knew the dynamic well from the couple’s side. He was never pushy with us. He had his own life, but would message us every few weeks or so and see what we were up to. It was comical with my wife because we’d be chatting on a Fridays about meeting up with someone and she’d be pretty blah about it, but then Steve would text and she’d perk right up and be all about it! He made her comfortable and that was a big turn on for her. Steve ended up moving away and then came back to CO years later but got married to a vanilla girl.

So, all this to say that if we could somehow find that kind of guy again, a true and genuine needle, she would perk up again. I love sharing her with others and she fantasizes about it all the time but doesn’t know if she’s ready to put forth the effort to find our new Steve. I don’t know if we will find him off of this post or not either, but it’s worth putting it out there just in case!

If you’ve made it this far, thank you. If you think you’d be a good match for us from any one of the 4 scenarios above, let us know. Please don’t waste our time, though. I’m not a cuck and she’s not into bulls. I’m fairly dominant and she’s submissive, but not a sub. We’re just your normal middle aged couple with a kinky side!

If we find what we’re looking for here, great! If not, I’ll keep having amazing sexual adventures with my wife and continue looking.

So we know you read this, tell us which concert stadium had a big hail storm at it the other day!