After a break due to various life things we are dipping our toes back in. We are adding social media and LS site accounts back when we can. In the meantime, here's a bit about us:

Us: We are a late 40s married couple that has been practicing ENM and swinging for about 8 years. We are based out of central Texas, but enjoy travel. We are HWP and do our best to keep our bodies healthy while also enjoying life, and consider ourselves attractive/average with Mom and Dad-bod. We love the outdoors especially hiking and swimming. We are new to sobriety and exploring how this changes our approach to the lifestyle. We don't need partners to be sober, but we prefer those who limit their consumption to responsible amounts. We like to make a connection with playmates, and usually emphasizes quality over quantity, but in the right moment can be DTF.

Our Experience: We experimented with soft swap early in our marriage, and some FMF threesomes, girl-girl fun, and parallel play. Since we went all in in the lifestyle, we are situationally comfortable with full swap, threesomes (MFM, FMF, FFM), and orgies. However, for us its about the connection and the chemistry in the moment, and we are always willing to play at the comfort level of our partners with no hard and fast requirements or expectations. We have had tons of fun in DTF situations, but tend to prefer FWB.

Her: 5'3", long blonde hair, blue eyes. Artistic, outgoing/extrovert, and very fun loving. Has a thick athletic build (former athlete). She is bisexual (not bi-curious, not a pillow princess). Hardcore plant lady.

Him: 6'2", dirty blonde hair, blue eyes. Reserved and analytical (works in STEM higher education), loves to relax and have fun. Loves to give oral! Loves to cook.

Fantasies: Well we have lived out a lot of our fantasies (threesomes, parallel play, soft and full swap, orgies). Some kink areas we have dabbled in and enjoyed are sensation play, electricity, tantra, hotwife. We are interested in expanding some of this to include exploring kinks of various types such as BDSM, gangbangs, rope play, and probably other things we don't know about yet.

Limitations: We are not interested in rushing things or pushy people but if there is great chemistry things might happen quickly. We understand and respect that people move at different paces when exploring this lifestyle. We require condoms for intercourse. We are not super interested in separate play though situationally perhaps it can happen.

You? We are looking for couples and singles (M&F) that are somewhat similar to us: relaxed and fun loving people who are sympathetic to the limitations of professionals and parents. We prefer to play with those who take public and sexual health seriously. You should embrace the concept of enthusiastic consent.

Communication is important- no low effort messages please.

https://preview.redd.it/xgalslfzdf4b1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f5c8aa094f13d852990d88a118b1912ad86589d7