This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Hey everyone! Since you can really only say so much in the title of a post, we figured it would be good to have this here so you know what you're getting beyond our age, gender, and who we want to fuck. I really hope this catches on so its a little easier to know who you're arranging to meet with. This is a fairly long post, but your shot at meeting us is a hell of a lot better if you read it all (what can we say, literate partners are a turn on!) I'll be coming back to this and updating it as necessary so no need worry about anything being out of date.
We are a young happily married pansexual couple. We go by caramel and ginger till we meet irl just to keep our names safe, though we're happy to verify, and don't meet with anyone who can't. We also keep our faces hidden till we feel comfortable sharing them, it doesn't take much we just like to be careful about that. Both of us are drug and disease free, we get tested regularly to be sure and always play safe. We also don't drink or smoke. It's just not our thing, but neither of us mind people who do.
I'm sure most of you can figure it out from our pics, but just in case: Ginger is the redhead, and I'm caramel. Initial communication and posting is mostly handled by me (caramel) because ginger is a trans man and this way I can screen out any hateful or rude comments. If we do all hit it off though I'll gladly add him to a group chat here or on another platform so we can all talk.
Just so this is as clear as possible and so no one wastes their time if they aren't actually interested: Ginger is a trans man. He has an amazing curvy body, a great pussy, and is still very much a guy. If you're looking to have sex with a woman we have nothing for you, if you're open minded and like pussy in general, we just might. If you don't think you can reliably call him by he/him pronouns, you should also probably not waste your time. I know that can be hard for some people, but no one wants to feel invalidated during sex or feel disrespected by a potential partner, we're all just looking to have a good time so lets make sure that's possible for everyone involved.
Also to the single guys out there, we are open to the idea but we are very picky when it comes to you. The only bad experiences we've had, have unfortunately been with single males, which has lead us to be more cautious with that group in particular. Feel free to message and us we'll get back to you if we're interested but if we don't, it either means we're busy or not interested.
Now that all of that is out of the way, I'll tell you about us and then give you the run down on what kind of people and interactions we're looking for after that. If you'd like to see whether you fit what we're looking for before you read about us, scroll till you see "What we're looking for:"
So like I said above we're happily married and poly, looking to enjoy fun experiences and meet new people together (we don't play separately unless we're all already close with someone.) While we are young- both of us are currently 22- we are in no means a new couple, immature or inexperienced. Ginger and I have been together 6 amazing years now. We were highschool sweethearts and started experimenting with polyamory about a year into dating. At this point we have had a plenty of threesomes and foursomes with friends as well as hook ups and hang outs with people from online.
I'd dare to say that we're pretty good in bed. We're both very extroverted and love meeting new people, so we're equally as interested in making friends as we are in having great sex. If you're looking to avoid drama and BS it won't be hard to do with us, neither of us struggle with communication, so we'll be direct and honest with you. A fair heads up is that we're both fairly busy people, I currently work in accounting and have a fair share of creative side projects. Ginger is currently working in the psychology field. Sometimes we get stints where there just isn't much free time between family and deadlines. We are however both very skilled at planning, so having some fun during those time's isn't impossible just requires a some good coordination. We also tend to be busy most Saturday's unless we have notice well in advance. We can host but not the first time we meet with someone, we can be flexible on that but only if we've been talking for a while already, and at the very least we always meet at a public place first. We rent our place with another couple, but they know what we get up to and don't mind us having people over for this sort of thing. We are also able to travel and aren't opposed to splitting a hotel room should the need arise.
Personality wise I'd describe us as friendly, ambitious, optimistic, happy, creative, nerdy and open people. We both really enjoy good conversation. We love to talk and we love to listen. As I mentioned we are pretty nerdy, we spend our free time writing, gaming, watching movies/shows/anime, and playing D&D (we both DM and run games on Saturday's hence why they tend to be busy for us.) That being said we're also both well educated and keep ourselves up to date with the world around us, so we have just as easy a time talking with people in their 40's as we do people in their 20's. Both of us had to grow up earlier than most, so you'll find we tend to act a little older than our age. We don't take ourselves too seriously though, we have a great time being silly and joking around too. We're not too picky when it comes to what we do, we like staying in just as much as going out and are almost always up for trying new things. Basically, we can have a good time doing pretty much anything and when we don't, we find a way to make it one.
Now for the fun part! What we're like and what we like in the bedroom:
Now I doubt we're alone in this here, but both of us have very high sex drives and view our sexual nature as an important part of who we are. We aren't ashamed of it in the slightest and rather enjoying sharing that side of ourselves with people. That being said we both highly value consent from everyone at all times. Both of us have had non consensual experiences so it's something we take very seriously. We won't play games or play hard to get, we much prefer to ask point blank, "do you want to do x" and we appreciate the same. In all fairness, we can be prone to a little coy teasing, but we're always happy to clarify if needed.
I am a huge flirt and ginger has adopted some of my tendencies, so it follows we love dirty talk and seduction, both giving and receiving it. We also adore showering our partners in compliments about themselves. But in general words can be a fun way we like to engage sexually.
Both of us are also very camera friendly! We love to take nudes and videos, and love to post them and share them places. So for all the explicit creators out there, we'd be happy to help you make some content! The only thing we like to keep private are our faces, so as long as we've got masks of some sort, we're good to go.
As mentioned before, both of us are pansexual, we don't care what equipment you've got or what you identify as, as long as your down to fuck, so are we. Neither of us are very picky about how we fuck either, whether we top, bottom or anything in between we still have a good time. The same extends to pitching and catching, although I do have to mention that I can struggle with receiving anal because of my IBS. I'm always happy to try if I can, but it's a gamble at any given time what my tight little asshole will let me get away with. Ginger on the other hand has no such problem, he's somewhat of an anal master, and he's been helping me practice too.
Trying out new positions is something we also have a lot of fun with. Ginger will often call me a "sexgineer" because I'm always thinking up fun ways to "have fun." Everything from optimal ways to DP someone to all the different ways to give handjobs in a threesome. There's always the old reliables but we like keeping things fresh. Not to mention that where group sex is concerned there's a world of possibilities, and we like to see ourselves as explorers.
Now when it comes it kinks, we're both into pretty much everything and quite enjoy getting a little freaky. I'm not exaggerating here either, The list of things we aren't into is much shorter than what we are into. That list of turn offs being: blood, scat, or anything that involves bad smells. If it's not on that list chances are we're down to at least try it if we haven't already. While there is a good bit we have tried, there's still some things that we're eager to but haven't yet. I know that's all a little vague though, so I'll talk about a few of our favorites. With everything I'm about to say, you can safely assume we're into being on the giving and receiving ends of things unless otherwise specified, as both of us are switches. Also keep in mind you don't have to share all our kinks for us to have a good time, it's just more of a fun bonus if we match up on some of these.
-The first might be somewhat obvious, but we love group sex, between all the options and everything to take in while it happens, it just really gets us going. We've got a "more the merrier" mentality about it so we're really looking forward to our first fivesomes /orgies.
-Another big one for us is exhibitionism whether it's showing off online, fucking with an audience, or especially having a little public and/or risky fun, we are all for it.
-Probably both of our biggest fetish would be feet and footplay. Now I know this is a turn off for some people, so don't worry if you're not into it. Both of us love it though and it's a big plus if you do too. We love it all, from enjoying others feet, to others enjoying ours, and I'd say we're both pretty skilled at using our feet to bring people pleasure. The only part of the fetish we're not into is dirty feet, we both take very good care of ours and love when our partners do the same.
-Unsurprisingly our love of roleplay extends from D&D to the bedroom as well. Now while we've only gotten to indulge in it a few great times, we are both very experienced role players given we play a game where we improv several to tens of characters every session. So if that's something that excites you or something your looking to try, we're happy to fulfil some fantasies. We also love sexting and text based erotic rp if that's something you're interested in.
-It's a very broad category, so we haven't explored it all yet, but when it comes to bdsm we've had a lot of fun and we'd love to explore more of it with those interested. We're particularly interested in seeing the dynamics play out with multiple partners involved.
-We have a lot of fondness for CG/l dynamics, if you don't know what that is feel free to ask or look it up. But for those of you who do already know, it's something we have a good time with. We often can slip in and out of little space with each other and enjoy taking care of one another when that happens. We also just really love sweet and gentle doms.
Those are just a few of our favorites, I could list out many more but it would be rather exhaustive for both me to type, and for you to read, so if you're curious about if we share a certain kink feel free to ask. Like I said we're both super freaky and chances are we'll be into it too, so don't be shy! kinks are something we love talking about anyways.
What we're looking for:
We're down for pretty much all swinging has to offer, from the occasional one night stand, to fuck buddies to FWB's. Ideally though, we're hoping to focus on that last one and make some great long term friends who are just as happy as we are to get naughty. Specifically we'd like to find other Bi/Pan couples like us. We also love to find other vers men. With the amount of effort that goes into getting myself ready for anal, it just feels more fair to have the same be an option, of course we won't ever pressure anyone into it either.
In terms of our preferences one of the most important things for us is really personality. We find that good people with personalities that click with ours become more attractive to us, and of course rude/disrespectful people become less attractive. On the physical side of things, I'd say we're very open minded body positive people. Fit or plus size, tall or short we like it all. Same goes for equipment, we love dicks, boobs, and asses of all sizes. Of course all genders and orientations are welcome too! We do tend to be pickier when it comes to the gentlemen but not too much. The only other thing we can be picky about is that we generally prefer our partners trimmed or shaved, it's not a total deal breaker but a lot of body hair can be a bit of a turn off for us.
Long story short, we're down for a lot but our ideal would be another bi/pan couple that's looking to be friends while also being kinky, horny, and down for some fun on the regular. If you like what you read feel free to shoot us a message! I'll be linking this in all our future posts for those who want to learn more about us.
And of course some pics:https://www.reddit.com/user/CaramelandGinger01/comments/r2ykat/pics/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 2 years ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/u_Caramelan...