I always hate trying to talk about myself, but yet, here we are, again.

I've done the apps, I've asked the friends, I've tried to be social, but I'm just not a social being, and the people I seem to talk to the mostly appear to have gay friends.

I'm in 36, single (and have been since the early days of covid), no kids, no family of mention, work in the tech space, pretty straight in terms of not drinking/smoking/drugs, and would describe myself as caring intelligent soft daddy (because this has confused people before - no I don't have kids, no I'm not looking for them, I mean this is the BDSM DD/lg/caregiver way, just minus the "dom" part of it all..). I enjoy getting out of the house and going for a hike, but the weather has kinda of put a stop to that, I equally love a night/day in with a movie.

I don't really know what I'm looking for - almost anything I guess. A friend to talk to online, someone to go on friendly brunch dates, a cuddle buddy (I'm craving any form of intimacy lately..), a FWB, someone to actually date long term? I guess it all depends on who you are and how we mesh.. perhaps we can take it slow and go through all of those!

Yes, I have some requirements of humans, female only (by birth, sorry), non smoker (if you're trying to quit, or only smoke socially when drunk out... Maybe exceptions can be made), not into drugs (includind weed), if you're a tradie or do a physical job extra brownie points to you, are younger than me (again, depends on the person, and how we go, anything from 18 and moved to the city for uni, through to divorced after 15 years of marriage).

If you've got this far through this post, whoa, good on you! You should probably hit me up in chat :)