About Vanilla me:

Hi, I'm a 21yo, 5,7', hazel eyes, blonde hair (natural brunette) AFAB from Australia moving to the UK with my husband, we are in a polyfidelity relationship (so a relationship with himself and I and others all dated each other, not outsiders). No children yet / wants children. Wants pets (even though has allergies) or is fine with someone who doesn't want pets. We are looking for a woman to love and have a proper relationship with.

We love to do: kissing, cuddling, and holding hands. Stay home / in a lot in my comfort zone. Love taking walks together. Travelling together in general. Trying new things (like hobbies, foods, and places). And are big on communication.

Hobbies: Gaming (online or card/board). Writing, reading. Listening to music, singing. Photography, video editing. Watching movies, TV shows, YouTube, or TikToks. Cooking, cleaning, and organising.

Some traits: Creative, Empathic, Respectful, Honest, Loyal, Perfectionist, Germaphobe, Organisational, Mischievous, Romantic, Impatient, Achievement oriented, Stressed, Procrastinates with anxiety, Influential, Quiet, Realist, Polite, Curious, Caring, Fun-loving, Easily bored, Wandering mind, diagnosed mental health issues like depression and BPD, Amusing, Bossy, Affectionate, Boosts of random energy, Always tired, Sleeps a lot or too little, Affirming, Good leader, Self disciplined, Over-thinker, Understanding, Good listener, Helpful, Caretaker.

What I am generally looking for in a vanilla part of a relationship is: Someone to share stuff with. Someone who treats my partner(s) very well (there is nothing I don't have / can't get from my partner I'm not looking for someone to fill in the blanks or an outsider looking in or third wheel I'm looking for someone to join in fully). Someone to hold, kiss, and cuddle with. To share music with (and if you like singing in the car or shower is a bonus). To have fun with and care for. To take you to dinner and a movie or stay home all day with you in bed, gaming or even cooking. To read together or exercise together. To show you off and protect you. Wake up and make you breakfast and a hot drink to help start your day. Someone to buy perfumes for and other gifts. To talk to you every day and find out all about how your days have been. To plan the future together. Take photos together and go nice places together. You know all the long-term relationship stuff, but ×2 cause there will be more of us.

Vanilla about my husband: Hello, I'm a 29yo, 6'0", hazel eyes, brunette hair, AMAB from England and am looking for a woman to join my partner and I.

My hobbies include: Gaming (online or card/board). Writing, reading. Listening to music, potentially singing. Watching films, TV shows, and maybe YouTube or TikToks.

Some of my traits: Empathic, Respectful, Honest, Loyal, Mischievous, Romantic, Anxious, Quiet, Realist, Polite, Curious, Caring, Fun-Loving, Easily bored, Wandering mind, Amusing (supposedly), Affectionate, Always tired, Sleep issues, Affirming, Good follower, Self-disciplined, Over-thinker, Understanding, Good listener, Helpful, Caretaker, Sarcastic (leaving the best until last).

What I am generally looking for in a vanilla part of a relationship is: The exact same things my wife listed.

HARD NO's for both: No smokers at all, no alcoholics (this does not include social drinking. Just don't always be drinking or using alcohol to solve your problems). Not always loud, no bullying, harassment or forcable actions like abuse.