Looking for a couple firsts.

I am a mostly straight guy but I suppose hetroflexible may be more accurate. Anyhow I enjoy using large toys on myself and would like to explore some new avenues. For reference, my smallest is close to 8in long and about 6in for girth. 1. Looking for a guy that can either match, be close too, or exceed my smallest toy. I would like to play with/explore your tool. I might want to tie you up or blind fold you too, Idk yet haha. You must be clean (std free) and clean or well trimmed (grooming & hygiene). 2. Ladies, I would be interested in having you use my toys on me. You're in control there. If you also like being used or large toys, I'd gladly return the same.