Do people not know how to hold a full-blown conversation that last?

It’s so annoying I just want to find somebody to have a good conversation on the kinky side of things that actually blossoms into a friendship you know where we talk more than like a few sentences and then I get ghosted. Where people aren’t assholes. I would like to actually find someone who actually knows what it means to have a meaningful connection and be in the BDSM lifestyle, and want to build a connection or a friendship, and yet not being an asshole. I did not know it was that hard to find someone like that. I am simply a 36-year-old female on the East Coast who just and I’m not asking for much I’m simply asking for a full-blown day-to-day conversation periodically. I’m well aware people have lives. I am I’m well aware people have lives, I have one myself! But it can’t be that hard to want to find genuine connection with other people were humans that’s what we want. T but it can’t be that hard to want to find genuine connection with other people were humans that’s what we want. That’s what we want that’s what we crave.