Hi.
I'm a 59-year-old cis, het, white man. I used to be a middle-distance runner, but I'm overweight now.

I'm a Desert Storm veteran. I have a Bronze Star from that conflict.

I'm married. I love my wife. We've been together 30 years as I type this, married for 26 of them. She's the second woman with whom I've had sex.

I am in therapy. I have major depression and chronic PTSD. I think it's important to talk about that, to normalize talking about our mental and emotional struggles.

My teen years spanned the late 70s to the early 80s, and back then there were two genders (male and female) and two sexualities (straight and gay and being gay meant taking a beating). I learned years ago how wrong that was, and I've apologized to people I hurt back then. Lately I've realized that I care more about who people are than what's between their legs. I've never been with a man, but I am curious about it. I'm also having to learn what it means for me to be more genderfluid and pansexual.