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A common mistake men make during sex (cont. in comments)
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urban outfitters lol

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pretty good strat for long term relationships yes!
But 1) I've noticed that some men are *way better* at sex than others, there's something else going on here, and
2) I'm interested in writing a bit more for early/casual sex, as opposed to long term romantic partner sex. For long term sex it's pretty hard for anyone outside to be able to help you, since you yourself have prob already hit the low hanging fruit

My blog post: Men Are Werewolves

This is a series on how to be good at sex, written by me - a mega slut with a penchant for keeping spreadsheets and overanalyzing social trends and incentives. 'Good sex' can mean a lot of different things, but for the purpose of this series it means 'turning a woman into a thoughtless sexbody, a moaning hornycreature, with no other space in her mind besides the sex that's occurring with you, a complete overwhelm of pleasure'.

Teaching people to be good at sex via text on a screen is hard. I want to give lots of really concrete, data-based advice, but thereโ€™s inevitably some art to it, a slow approach from the side. To some degree you have to gesture poetically at the fuzzy goal, and hope that somehow the reader might find their own way to it.

This post is a squint-at-it-sideways attempt to express a nuanced mental state, so update lightly, update poetically, take it as a frame to roll around under your tongue and use or discard the way that makes sense for you.

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