I've been thinking a bit about this since I decided to force the time in to come back to GWA. There is this thing that a lot of us do, to the point that it is sort of the default, and I kind of think maybe it's a little odd. I kind of have come to the conclusion that it's maybe sort of weird that we talk about the listener achieving orgasm during the majority of scripts.

This is not something we should set aside, but even if we were to set aside the fact that not everybody does, it's weird to tell somebody, even if it is just an indication that it is happening, that they are cumming, and when. It's not something you just turn on and off, and no matter how skilled and knowledgeable of what buttons to push your partner is, they can't just say, "You will achieve orgasm....now," like some kind of sexual Nostradamus.

In some situations, I actually find it sort of jarring to be told I am achieving orgasm, because there is that part of my brain that says, "but hey, I'm not right now." As such, I think, unless I am told to the contrary by a number of people, I am likely to stop putting that in scripts. If you are someone who does orgasm, not being told you are getting there isn't the same as saying you never got there, and if you do get there, you are probably going to get there somewhere along the way. I think maybe I leave that in your hands. There's almost a double entendre there.

So there you go. Speakers in my scripts will still make it quite clear that they are blasting off, because who doesn't want to hear their partner make all those fun noises? I just figure that your orgasm is your orgasm (or it's not), and you should make room for it or not if/when it happens.

Probably posting another one in the morning. Have a fantastic time-of-day-where-you-are.