Another moment of my life, we'll call her SH. (Not one of my favorite memories, so it won't be lengthy as others) This was several years ago when I was 44 to 45, I had met a woman (about 33yo). We met at a food pantry of all places in the city I lived in then. She was with a guy, but I saw her look my way a few times, so I'd smile at her to let her know I saw her looking at me. Eventually he left to go do whatever, leaving her there by herself. I look over at her, and she comes up to me.

Small talk, a few laughs, names exchanged, she likes older guys, the one she's with is an ass, yada yada. I said "So leave him." She says she can't because she lives with him, no other place to go, yada. I just met her, so I'm not saying "Come live with me..." because... no.

A few days later, I see her out by herself, so I walk by and wave. She said "There you are!" I turned to look behind me, just in case lol, but she really meant me. So I said "Yep, here I am. And there you are!" and she tells me she has her own place now, not with him, I'm cute, wanna date? yada yada.

Again, sorry this is not detailed, you'll find out why later.

So we date. It's good at first, for about 2 weeks. Sex is great, she has tig ole biddys, fine round big ass, black hair blue eyes (kinda my kryptonite). But after awhile, I'm noticing she's not around much like she was. "Oh, I've been at a friend's place..." ... "Visiting my mom..." yada yada. Yea, sure, ok. Why am I hearing about all these people now?

I run into one of her "Friends", male of course, and he's looking for her. Yes, the same SH I'm dating. Says she left something in his room last night. I said "If I see her, I'll let her know." and walked off. Pissed. I had msgd her on FB the day before, and she said she was at her mom's for the night. I run into her and I'm livid. Let's call her "friend, "T"

"T SAID YOU LEFT YOUR PANTIES IN HIS ROOM LAST NIGHT" And I said this, very loudly, around people we both knew. I said "Fuck you. Lie to me. Tell me you're at your mom's while sucking T's dick. FUCK. YOUUU." and stormed off. This is where it gets stupid, and by that I mean my intelligence died.

This happened not only once, but 17 times. Yes, you read that right. 17 times I took her back, and 17 times she cheated on me. But it was damn good pussy. She wouldn't be fwb with me, she wanted to date, so out of needing her cooter like a frickin drug, I kept taking her back. Gawd I was so stupid. But I got laid a lot lmao. So that's some background into my boomerang gf. And from this comes 2 memories I still think of fondly, even in the face of being cheated on. 17 times:

SH and the bj

SH and the watersports