We started posting to our account with the intention of being regular, but a couple of things happened that led our focus away from Reddit.

First, everyone we spoke to ghosted us. We had a few people send chat requests from our community posts, had a good time getting to know a few people, but ultimately everyone stopped replying without a goodbye. This is the internet, it's somewhat expected, but it was still disheartening.

Second, we visited a sex club. So far we've only been the one time, and we kept to ourselves. We hung out in the bar a bit, spent some time naked in the sauna together, and had sex beside another couple. It was a lot of fun, and we're definitely planning on going back (when we find the time to travel again).

Third, we did meet someone in the real world (not at the sex club) that we became somewhat close with and have been played with a few times together. This was our first time playing with someone as a couple - our first time playing with someone else since we got together - and we learned a lot about ourselves.

So, what did we learn? We learned we enjoy having sex with another woman together. Not really a surprise, but we learned just how much we enjoy having sex together - turns out it's a lot. We also learned how important being friends and romantically involved is with the person we're having sex with - turns out it's very important to us.

So, where are we now? After a lot of discussion and introversion, we know what we're looking for. We're looking for a woman to date, to create a triad with. We're not looking for a just a play partner, we both want to have to be friends with and romantically involved with them - we're looking for a girlfriend.