Whale hello there. 🐳 As you can probably tell from my profile, I am an incredibly kinky guy. Years of dabbling in BDSM content and dating a few lonely ladies, who just so happened to share my fantasies, showed me just how exhilarating kink can be. Consequently, I think it's safe to say that I have drunk the proverbial Kool-Aid…  

The problem is that despite being deeply into kink, I am not a kinkster. I have no desire to go to munches, free play, or take part in the BDSMcommunity (besides anonymously on Reddit) In my day to day public life, I am a charismatic and eccentric but relatively typical monogamous man who wants a typical relationship based on a deep connection and mutual respect. As you can imagine, this presents a difficult dilemma. I want to form a meaningful long term relationship with a partner who is just as excited to be tied up as I am to do the tying, but I am too uncomfortable to go to the gatherings where BDSM savvy folk meet. On top of this, I also happen to be a bit picky when it comes to partners both physically and personality wise, so what now? 

Well, rather than sit around and hope for a miracle, I have decided to tackle the problem head on. In an effort to expose myself to as many potential monogamous kinky partners as possible, I am going to post shibari pics, short stories, and other forms of BDSM related content. Think of me like a cam girl except instead of trying to get you to subscribe to my only fans, I am just trying to convince you to let me take you out for a lovely dinner and pleasant conversation. 

So, if you are a cute gal with an equally debaucherous side who is also looking for a long term relationship, please check out these other posts in my profile to get a better idea of who I am and what I want.

About Me:
https://www.reddit.com/user/1d_SHiP_1t/comments/1ffc1my/about_me_a_life_outside_the_bedroom/

Relationship Goals: https://www.reddit.com/user/1d_SHiP_1t/comments/1ffbk2r/the_four_pillars_of_a_healthy_relationship_my/

Kink Goals
https://www.reddit.com/user/1d_SHiP_1t/comments/1ffcggk/i_suppose_we_should_talk_about_kink/