Just reporting in as a single male attendee. I can confirm that if you go early, make an effort to be friendly, and try not to swing too high out of your league, you can have a great time. Regulars last night said it was pretty empty, but even on a quiet night I met this wonderful Venezuelan couple and they really took me under their wing and showed me a great time.

A few tips for other single guys I see on here:

1. Don’t stand around jerking off. If you’re a voyeur just go to a strip club and pay for a room. It’ll be the same cost as a ticket here and you’ll get the one on one attention you’re looking for

2. This place is really mostly for couples. If you keep in mind that you’re a guest in their space and behave accordingly people will be super accommodating and friendly

3. The general flow is -step1 make an impression on a couple when you’re at the bar or on the dance floor -step2 chat and flirt and have fun -step3 get invited to the play area. Do these in order, do not skip a step, and i guarantee you will find someone who you’re gonna have a great night with

In the future, I think I’m gonna try to get to know more people before I go. It would be fun to meet up for drinks before and really get to know people. Still new to this community and really amazed by the love and freedom of it all.