The husband found out right before Christmas. Everything went into the toilet. Now I can't talk to her anymore. I just hope she's okay honestly. He communicated to me a few times. He seems like a controlling type of person which sucks. I got confirmation of it last night since my TF and I both post on a webpage. Well, husband joined now. It's so stupid.

I've been hanging back and not engaging because I don't want her to have added turmoil to whatever it is she's already dealing with over there. I guess there's nothing for me to do but keep staying positive. I just hope she's okay. Why is this life so goofy that you meet someone so incredible but they're all tied up in a marriage and boo. What a big bowl of suck. I do miss you, 78.