My TF unfriended me on apps after I told him a secret I’ve been holding in since we were young… I’m in therapy for it all and facing things, I told him what happened and why I was acting that way and I was rly emotional and he dumped me lol I never told him about it (teen pregnancy and miscarriage). We haven’t seen each other in. Decades as life pulled us away.

He never responded to me either after I told him... Just poof and he is as gone. I figured he was processing it? Because as far as I know he has no children..

I got over it, forgot about him as much as I possibly could. Songs weren’t triggering. Nothing was bringing me back to those feelings. Until today.

Instagram notified me he was following me. And I followed him back then unfollowed right away. He never pops up on my feed, even when we did follow each other. . He’s always there no matter what I do. I want him to want me but that will never happen. He thinks I’m batcrap crazy…

Anyone else have the same kind of relationship with their TF? I was the chaser… now I feel more like a runner, but he isn’t really chasing. Maybe? Idk..

Input anyone?