As title says, what syncs have shown you this is a TF relationship?

Here are mine:

• Her phone number had my area code, directly after hers.

• I’ve lived in Indiana for 20 years, and she moved to a town called Indiana, PA before I met her. I even helped her drive there to collect the stuff she left behind.

• I was born on Long Island, and her Dad grew up there.

• Her grandma was also from NY and she was a huge believer of Zig Ziglar the motivational speaker, and he is someone I look up to dearly and listen to when I need inspiration.

• She is from Arkansas, and I have this very clear memory when I was in 1st grade living in NY, and learning about States and Capitols. I magnetically was pulled to Arkansas and always wondered, “I wonder what’s out there.”

• This is more of push/pull than sync, but just before I embarked on my journey to Arkansas, I started getting hit with temptation to stay in Indiana. I began finding jobs that I was seeking for years, and all I could tell myself was, “There must be a reason for me to go to Arkansas, and the universe is testing my faith.” But I had no idea what it was.

• She is the complete opposite of me in almost every way. She went to college, I didn’t. I love math, she hates it. I love numbers, she hates numbers. She loves words, I hate words. It’s like we fit together like perfect puzzle pieces.

• We love the same funky music and that’s how we bonded that most.

• I am more introvert while she is more extrovert, but we both swap places many times. I’m like an extroverted introvert, while she is an introverted extrovert.

• Our families are polar opposite. Mine is more toxic, fights and yelling at one another, while hers is more peaceful. Her family is like the family I never had, even her extended relatives are close to them, while my family is so distant.

• Our union ended after 5 years due to us becoming toxic, and she ended it with infidelity. I am Italian, and she just so happened to cheat on me with another Italian (barely an Italian if that) but they’re so rare in Indiana so it was a blow to my face.

• She continued talking to other men, and met a guy from El Salvador. Within 2-3 weeks after I found out, I got drunk and walked around my neighborhood, then randomly met a neighbor and their whole family was from El Salvador. They even tried to hook me up with one of their daughters, but she wasn’t present at the time.

Honestly there’s more syncs than this, I just can’t think of them all right now… it’s so crazy and intense, sometimes I just wanna shut my brain off 😓