Am I the only one who has beliefs about twin flames that don’t match the stereotypes?

For example, I don’t believe in the “runner/chaser” concept at ALL. As hard as it is for everyone to find decent people they click with, and how badly everybody wants to find their person (whether they admit it or not, whether they believe in twin flames or not), I don’t believe you could have a strong connection with someone like that and they’ll run From you, instead of TO you. It makes no sense to me.

I also don’t believe in the common descriptions of twin flame relationships being triggering and toxic.

I don’t believe twins are exactly alike in all ways or totally different in all ways.

I don’t believe twins necessarily have spidey-sense either.

So even though I believe in the general concept of twins and I’m fascinated by the subject I always find myself sitting it out during conversations about it, shaking my head thinking that what I’m seeing and hearing doesn’t sound/feel “right” to me on a gut level, and wanting to join the discussion but I can’t so I feel like the kid during gym class sitting on the bench watching everybody else play LOL.

…Am I the only one?