I am an alum. I like it here.

From my observations, folks that are from smaller towns and cities tend to love Tulsa. For folks from major cities (NYC, Chicago, LA), it is a bit of an adjustment.

All the restaurants tend to close early. There is plenty for me to do, but I don't want to do a whole lot. I am happy to see the occasional play or concert or comedy show. I am cool with seeing an art show like every few months. I like the dog parks and walking next to the river. I like the library and coffee shops. I don't expect or want to be out every night doing stuff.

Other concerns to be aware of: abortion is illegal here. Marijuana requires a prescription. We are at a strange moment in politics, especially in regards to education. If I had kids, I would really do some research before putting them in schools here because the legislature is off the chain. Tulsa is a mixed bag insofar as conservatives and liberals. Outside of Tulsa and OKC is very conservative.

That said, buying a house here is ridiculously affordable. Tulsa has everything that I need in a city to be healthy and happy.