i am nonbinary myself, not sure how this sub views nonbinary people as a whole so my bad if im intruding and leaving a sour taste in ur mouth. but lately ive felt like the only nonbinary person actually suffering from dysphoria. i live in a very hip millennial part of NYC and a majority of the people i meet who are “nonbinary” are female and perfectly comfortable with having their tits out. half of these people are reverting straight back to she/her when it comes time to hookup with a straight cis male which makes it very hard for me to empathize as someone who has been turned down for sticking to my ambiguous identity. when i voice this opinion to other they/thems im told that presentation and appearance shouldn’t conclude one’s identity but come fucking on these girls are wearing push up bras and flashy skirts and complain when their pronouns aren’t being used.