Like, maybe I'm too naive who knows. I'm a femmine ftm man and do crossdressing and am trying to get into sex work and maybe start stripping once I get top surgery. I was wanting to find other group of other femmine ftm's like myself. I don't know what to expect on r/bois but not a much of tomgirls saying they're trans which immediately made me uncomfortable. Like, dysphoria is different for everyone, mines come in waves and I'm pretty comfortable with my body pre op and on a low dosage of T due to hormonal issues. So, I'm so insecure about being overly femmine unless I'm doing sex work or crossdressing because to me it's an act and it's not me doing it, well it is me but like a alter ego more so than anything. But when I see "boys" on r/bois it's just hard for me to take them seriously. Like, being a trans boy/man is way different than being a tomboy.

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Edit: Dysphoria is different I don't know them , so I can't say they don't suffer with anything but I try to look atleast 50/50 with my femininity and masculinity. Like if I make my facial hair darker and eyebrows and then paint my nails I'm ok as long as a look like a male or a 21 year old femmine male at a club than a 21 year old petite woman. Like do these people know what it is to be a trans man ..or like ? I swear some people are 🤡.