My wife and I married young and were each others firsts. We were both raised in religious homes and steered clear of porn and things like that. She never seemed to care about my size and enjoyed the sex.

Overtime I started to shed the religious upbringing and started looking at porn and realized that I was actually quite small (just shy of 4 inches but thick). I figured I got lucky since my wife was a virgin and mine was the first penis she saw.

About 15 years into our marriage we were having a bit of an argument about our mismatched libidos. During this disagreement my wife frustrated with it all said “well there’s only so much you can do when you’re only this big” while pinching her fingers together to indicate my small size. This comment stung and I excused myself from the conversation.

Fast forward a couple hours when we’ve both calmed down to discuss the situation further. At this point in my life i clearly knew I was smaller than average but still held onto the belief she was clueless. I straight up asked her if she thought I was small to which she said “yes I have always assumed it was small”. I asked her how long she’s assumed or thought I was small and she just said “I’ve always thought it, since our wedding night”.

A couple years later we were talking and that disagreement came up and I asked her about our wedding night, what her initial thoughts were about my penis and told her to be honest. She said that she was “disappointed”. I asked how she even had the idea it was small since she was a virgin and didn’t watch porn. She mentioned how all her girlfriends talked about their boyfriend’s penises that were huge in the 7-8 inch range so that’s what she was expecting and anticipating as normal. I asked her if she still felt disappointed to which she responded, “yes, from time to time but she learned to accept and enjoy it.”

We have been discussing adding SPH to our lives but she has been hesitant to do so. I hope in time I can share with you our experiences experimenting with it.