came across a post here that basically said it's hard to get connected to people from this sub (or other sub 0f similar nature) with real intention to meet. and ive noticed the same. sure, this is not primarily a hook up sub and there are other subs that suit that purpose but that is beside the point 0f this observation. this is for people who respond to posts which specifically indicate that the OP looks for a hook up; those who would express interest and give a scheduke, but would later leave the OP on read after having agreed to meet, as in with date and time.

is it that hard to just be completely honest and say no? i seriously wonder what these people think about when they first messaged, seemingly truly interested. probably horny. curious. carried away by emotions that are understandably fleeting and short-term. if the motivation is gone, is it difficult to maintain the decency to just straight up say no? to avoid wasting other people's time?

ive had my fair share 0f good encounters here, which led to actual meet up. but many are still inconsiderate 0f other people's time, effort, and energy. reddit is a good platform that provides anonymity, and i personally hope that the absence 0f our real identity does not equate to our lack 0f basic respect and decency. again, this is not entirely about the hook up itself, which 0f course is bound to happen based on preferences and agreements. walang pilitan. this is for people who willingly agreed but cant be man enough be clear with his intentions.

i said a lot. lol. pic for reference as to when i began reflecting on this. to anyone who's interested to hook up, especially str8 curious and bi top guys, read my previos posts. my DM is still open. 🤞