I’m sorry but that just isn’t true. You might feel that way but that’s not the case at all. I understand your struggle but this mindset will not help you. Losing your hair as a woman you get pity, not love. It’s normal for men to be bald or get hair transplants or tattoos for hair loss. Many famous men with beautiful families and good lives have thin or no hair everyone is exposed to bald men they view it as completely normal. Women however it’s next to none and most people’s immediate thoughts would be something more like “I wonder what’s wrong with her” assuming cancer or alopecia. I get it’s devastating for anyone going through it but catastrophizing it in particular for men doesn’t help anyone including yourself and I can promise you very few people will really shame you for it. Rude people who want to pick on people will always find a reason. Big nose, birthmarks, big ears, weight, hair line etc if it’s not your hair (or lack of) people who are looking to be rude will find something to pick on people about but most people are decent and think balding is completely normal