I am married to a die hard Swiftie and I’ve got to be honest- it’s the main thing that has completely turned me off of everything Taylor. It’s like I’m married to a religious zealot (and I grew up in a very Christian house and got out).

I have to censor what I say so as not to “disparage her name”, request we listen to ANYTHING but Taylor, and sit through HOURS of memes and tik toks about Taylor swift lore and theories.

We have a trip planned for Europe (originally US) and they requested we rearrange our trip to attend the Era’s tour there because “tickets are only $400 each and it’s practically a new tour”. The number of things we could do in Europe for $800 dollars is wild and we’ve already been to the Eras tour. (I was a good husband and supported the last one).

That’s all. I just needed to vent to a likeminded community, glad I found this sub.

Edit/update: wow I did not expect this to get so much attention and I always forget how passionate people are on Reddit. This is my husband and he is wonderful- I am not planning on divorcing him anytime soon. When I say I censor I mean I express things more tactfully than what I’m actually feeling. Not a complete shut down of conversation. This was very much meant to be a humorous vent.

For those recommending couples therapy-way ahead of you and am a huge advocate for it. Our communication is honestly great and he knows that Taylor is not my thing. He likes to share his passion and I similarly share mine. As for the Europe trip- we are not going to the concert. That was shut down immediately. While I’m sure if I said yes he would have ecstatically bought the tickets, he recognizes it isn’t the best way to spend our vacation.