The reason I like punishment systems is because I used to have stuff like it when I was groomed, so it's a part of my trauma and I love it deeply but haven't experienced it in a WHILE. Sooo.... I'm trying to make one I can suggest to doms <3

Also is "Discussion" or "Actively Seeking Abuse" the more accurate flare? I feel like both fit. Lmk if I need to change it! Anyways

So, I have it sort of fleshed out but want suggestions on how to make it worse. I've augmented it enough that even sluts with a low pain tolerance should be able to use it, like me!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Here's what I've fleshed out so far:

Equipment required: Washable marker, youe hands/cock/ect Equipment suggested: Nipple clamps, paddle or other allowed impact toys, magic wand/vibrator, restraints of choice, Nora, spreader bar or under-bed restraints, bondage/skin safe tape, collar and leash, blindfold.

The rules are simple yet flexible. The submissive must follow all instructions, and any failure to do so results in a Tally. Each Tally represents a reasonable punishment in according to importance of the instructions and sensitivity of the instructions. After a certain number of Tallies, the punishment increases after taking the first part. Explanation/Example below.

The Dominant, "A", tells the submissive, "B", to not moan while A teases B for an hour, otherwise b will be spanked. It is not a sensitive task, because they are in the privacy of the bedroom in their own home/hotel room, but it is still important because it what A has instructed B to do.

In the hour, B ends up with Tallies that total 23. For the first 10, A will spank B 2 times on each asscheek. The next 10 will be 10 total spanks on B's cunt. The final 3 will be slaps to B's clit.

This can be changed or augmented, and additional punishment can happen during the punishment, though once the punishment begins the first 23 tallies will be removed unless otherwise stated. (I.e., A tells B to count each spank and location. Every time they fail to do so in a reasonable time, a new Tally is made. But to make sure the punishments dont rack up too severely/quickly, the original Tallys prior to the punishment would be wiped) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Please leave suggestions!!!

My pain tolerance is shit, so I tried to make it as flexible as possible for even low pain tolerance people like me. Please also maybe remind me of why I deserved to be punished and what a useless slut I am for not having a decent pain tolerance yet <3