Yesterday I tried to make a post that got removed for violating rule 13, no personal ads. I guess posts are supposed to be more discussion focused versus seeking partners. So I rewrote the post in a way that I felt was a not specifically about myself or soliciting direct responses. It was pretty generic about what women here are probably feeling and what they need…not even suggesting I could give them what they need/want. Still flagged.

Yet everyday I see posts are here clearly requesting direct responses and interaction. Maybe the rules are a bit more lax for girls seeking men…but I see pretty blatant requests from Hunters from time to clearly seeking certain girls. Not to mention, isn’t everyone here hoping to find someone? There’s a literal ‘Hunter’ tag. But we’re supposed to tip toe around it?

So does anyone know what exactly constitutes personal ads around here. Is it certain keywords? Or is it subjective based on the mod reviewing the post? Not trying to stir the pot, just want to understand as I don’t want to find myself banned for repeated violations.