I know it's probably just confusing by nature but there's so many posts about things that I know would be so hard to make sense of. I myself have posted in the past in previous accounts about my past sexual trauma (and had some really serious backlash) and I totally understand people having ir developing kinks or fantasies because of it.

The bit I don't understand is the people posting almost pretending to be therapists or wanting to help, but also getting off to people trauma? Is that partof the fantasy or fetish? I like talking about my situation and I don't mind people getting off personally - I'm really not trying to shame anyone - I'm more just confused about the whole therapist \ therapy like angle I keep seeing. This isn't therapeutic at all surely, it's more just an indulgence (and for me a dpace to be open and not be shamed for getting off on my traumas).

I hope any of that makes sense!?