she was a papillon, I was there for her birth and fell in love with her immediately, we were inseparable ever since. I am disabled, so I cant work and stayed home in bed most days. Momo was with me 24/7, and she always brightened my day. I do have both her mom and dad, and they are here to help me feel less alone; momo was the one that snuggled up to me when I was in pain or sick. :(

sorry, that's how momo died, and she was attacked by a black lab </3

hit me right in the feels unintentionally

I pulled my little momo out of her mom and she was seriously with me during some of my worst health issues, and a major break up. since I'm disabled, she was with me 24/7. i just want to hold her right now. she was always there to lay on my face and to lick up my tears. its unreal she isnt here now. I blocked that dude. I dont need that energy in my life right now

edit: typo

"want company" is what he always said when he wanted to sleep together.

hes still reminding me after 2 months of saying no tho...🤷‍♀️

the one picture is her humping my exes rabbit, she loved humping that rabbit or my right arm. only right arm tho

because I told him....?

true, but if you've only hung out for sex, I would only assume hes trying to be there for sex. hes been trying to get in my pants since he hear I broke up with my long term boyfriend 2 months ago.. i got other dudes saying they're here for me, and the context of our friendship made the intentions more pure and understanding it all depends on the context with the person. I can see how from outside of the relationship, it looks harmless

we were Fwb for a couple years, and he always said "want company " when he wanted to hook up

lol I forget people cant just read my mind sometimes

thank you. men dont understand that saying no aggressively can cause a dangerous situation for women. apparently being too nice is wrong too; all I'm hearing is that the whole "saying no" part is what is wrong to those guys.

she was perfect

she was such a weirdo! I'm gunna super miss her doing dumb shit that would make me laugh

omg I have her dad, and be is like the ultimate weenie, be does the same stuff. him and momo were inseparable. I'm thinking of all the fun times we had. my neighbor is having a bonfire in her memory tonight. my neighbor and I have only known each other (and each others dogs) for 2 weeks, but she already has so many memories of momo, because momo was such a goofball ❤

p r e a c h no hes not trying to be nice. hes trying to get laid.

a previous comment I made earlier to give insight

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

my dog died yesterday in front of me when I was at the vet.

<3 momo was going to be 2 on Sept 1st. she was just a tiny little baby and didnt stand a chance. thanks for understanding. we pet parents understand the complexity of losing a baby

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I straight up just texted my mom minutes ago saying, "I'm also glad that other people understand that momo was like my baby and wasnt just a dog. they've all been so understanding with me and have all told me talk all the time I need. because it's like losing a best friend and a child at the same time. more and more people my age are getting their first pets by themselves, and they all say it's like having a baby. pets are there for your good days, and cheer you up on your bad days, and are always there when you need cuddles. pets are the best support system I think

it makes me happy that so many of my friends are also obsessed with their pets like I am. it means those pets are getting so much love and are in a good home <3 and being hurt and missing your pet means you loved them, and they got the love they deserved

I'm glad you havent been in this situation, otherwise you would understand.

per my previous comment:

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

a previous comment I made for context

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

thank you so much, she died right as I was coming to take her home, she had a seizure while the vet was telling me what was going on, and died while I was walking in to take her home to die, with family.

per my previous comment

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

thank you so much for your kind words. I'm still in shock with how quiet it is around the house. she was always doing something.

the vet gave me an impression of her paw prints and wrapped her up in her puppy blanket from when she was a baby. I buried her with some of her favorite rocks (she had a collection of 60 that she always played with and she always came inside with a new rock) some of her favorite dirty socks, and her favorite old rag. I took some ferns from her grave site, and some of the dirt that was on top. I put the ferns in my bedroom on top of her toy box, and her pawprints are right next to the ferns. my mom is making me a shadow box and a photo album later and planting succulents in her food dish. <3

a previous comment I made for insight:

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

I audibly laughed

edit: thank you

A previous comment I made earlier in the thread (please dont think I'm being a dick for copying this , this is just the context you're looking for)

since there is some confusion why this is trashy: in the past the dude and I were fwb, I got a boyfriend, we dated for 2 years, I just broke up with that boyfriend 2 months ago, this dude has been trying to "hang out" for two months since he heard I was single. I've told him I'm not ready, I've ghosted him for the last month. he saw someone post about my dog, and started this conversation. the only time we've "hung out" or he asked if I "needed company" was when he wanted to have sex. that is the context, and me saying no for two months did not deter him from continuing to ask while I am vulnerable

I've been saying no to him for 2 months

omg. momos dad is name Ollie. <3 hes one of my fur babies too. you can always tell who is on your side when you start grieving. everyone who ever met momo fell in love right away. because she was a goofy little dork. it was hard to stay mad at her. the next thing you knew, she was playing with a dirty sock you threw in the hamper, and you knew she got it by jumping into the hamper that was 3x bigger than her. 😂😂 she was a total goof. I'm so glad almost everyone in my support group understands. and I'm glad you had someone to lean on. forget the haters.

dude yes! for a full two months before this. dude hear I had broken up with my boyfriend of two years. the guys were all sending me the same message "heard your newly single, let me give you company" I got messages two days after I changed my fb status. just gross

my neighbor was watching her brothers dog, a black lab, which he just picked up in the street. I thought the dog was inside, and all of a sudden my momo was running for her life and before I got there, the dog had her in his mouth and shook her like he was killing a squirrel. she was doing ok when I brought her to the vet, vitals were fine for hours, I was 5 mins away when she had her seizure, she passed right after the vet told me what was going on, and I was entering the room to bring her home to pass