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I feel like I always hear people on this sub talk about clocking people and passing and shit but even getting to the point where I'm "clockable" rather than like blatantly obvious feels fucking impossible. And honestly I'd be pissed if another trans person acted like I wasn't trans so they didn't clock me at this stage, it just feels patronizing and like they're wasting a potential connection.]
Edit: also I feel like y'all are lying about male failing being distinct from passing. I can wear a dress (w/ cleavage), long hair, and a purse and regularly get misgendered by virtually all cishet men.
honestly i feel like, as a troid, you basically dont pass until you do. people assume im a woman basically everywhere, and ive had people from dating apps not realize im trans til like i mention it during the first date. my fiance said basically "someone could clock you if they were looking for it but no one is going to notice it unless theyre trying."
that said, i still feel so obvious. like, i dont intentionally bring up being trans during dates bc i expect them to just... notice. and i always feel silly clarifying my trans identity because like.... shouldnt people just know.
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